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| Author: | athelete3 [ Sat Sep 19, 2009 4:07 pm ] |
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I came up with an idea for a routine you can use on a girl that you're trying to date. Well the theory in general is within the first week or two of meeting a girl that you know likes you just be AFC like crazy. I mean blow her phone up, tell her you really like her, etc. Then if you still have her somewhat you just drop all of this and proceed to ignore her and act like it never happened. I haven't tried this yet but the idea is to get her thinking "Damn did i do something wrong? and hopefully it should make her come on to you at this point and you have her in the palm of your hand. I got this idea a while ago because i noticed a few girls doing this to me and it works, also a girl told me a story similar to this where it worked in the guys favor. Hit me up with any feedback or ideas |
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| Author: | JR* [ Sat Sep 19, 2009 4:21 pm ] |
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So.. Push/Pull on a larger scale in which you increase the chances of you getting blown out by being a total idiot and acting AFC and doing inconceivably idiotic shit to make yourself seem so blatantly unattractive that at the end of it, if it's worked, she may as well think of you as bipolar and extremely fucked up. Do you really think this would work on ten's? Or even other girls with multiple suitors, seriously, this may work on like, UB's MAYBE, but it's not about the ten's. And arguably, the game is all about ten game. If it doesn't work on a ten (by your definition), then it's not worth practicing. |
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| Author: | speed-bird [ Sun Sep 20, 2009 5:51 am ] |
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It's your idea, you ought to field test it and report back. |
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| Author: | DoubleDee [ Sun Sep 20, 2009 1:44 pm ] |
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I read some crazy shit here. I'm not a PUA or a natural. Well I actually have some skills that come to me naturally. Some more, some less. But all humans have it. My experience tells me that you don't need to act like some thing you aren't. You just need to be your (improved) self. Like someone already said, if you first act like a chump and then as an ass, I guess you will pay the price. But thats just a guess... So because I like psychology and understanding people, it seems interesting. Give it a try and keep us posted! |
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| Author: | Guess(again) [ Tue Sep 22, 2009 8:00 am ] |
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I almost done with my BA in Phsycology and have done intense one on one hypnosis training with The very best in the states(On a scale of Depth, He is not Pua but a master hypnotist) and I am going to say that this would absolutely not work. Here is the reason why Initial impressions can never be undone and they make up such a large percentage of how another person will permanently view you that you do not want to commit PUA suicide by playing the AFC for two weeks to begin with, Just so you can stop paying her attention. Will she miss the attention initially and maybee even think she did something wrong, Absolutely, Will cause her to somehow be magically attracted to you to the point she will want to fuck you, absolutely not. Let me give you an example, lets say your roomate has an old dog that annoys you to no end, goes to the bathroom in the house, wines, barks, smells etc, and you don't like it at all and then one day it dies and is gone and you suddenly miss it. Okay now this next question sounds sarcastic but it is to prove my point. Do you suddenly feel attracted to the dog or want to fuck the dog? No the answer is absolutely not, In the same way the girl may temporarily miss your attention but only at whatever level and from the role from which you were previously giving it to her, and sense you were giving her a lot of attention as an afc that is what she will be missing and will not be excited to accept anything else. So best case scenario you get stuck in afc chump mode forever, worse case she will lose interest well before the two weeks are over. All that being said If you have mastered the art of NLP you can act like whatever you want....a transvestite if you want to just keep embedding those commands and she will have no choice but to be attracted to you. Build up her expectations regarding you and she will undoubtedly go the rest of the way to meet them. Regards, Guess(Again) |
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| Author: | athelete3 [ Mon Sep 28, 2009 8:40 pm ] |
| Post subject: | yea |
But have u ever liked a girl and everything was going great. She was a little aggressive, came on a little strong but for some reason you kept talking to her. Then out of nowhere something happens, you dont know what but it seems like she doesn't like you as much as she did. Now the girl you have been blowing off is on your mind and you would do anything to get that back I guess I figured this could work the same if a guy does it. |
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| Author: | Open [ Sun Oct 11, 2009 6:12 am ] |
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Dont' forget that guys and girls are very different. As guys, we like the thrill of the chase and love to think about the possibilities, while HATING missed ones. Girls not so much. |
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| Author: | AceofSpades07 [ Wed Oct 14, 2009 12:17 am ] |
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basically a push pull concept which is very powerful and this can work but take out the acting like a clingy needy afc part cause yes this will probably be suicide. remember you dont need to do afc things inorder toshow a girl your intrested in her. Show your intrest in a very alpha way and then a lack of intrest if thats what you want to do. Just leavem better than you found em. |
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| Author: | PeepingTom [ Sun Oct 18, 2009 2:13 am ] |
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I don't understand the rationale behind this idea. Where is the part where you hook up with her? She's just going to think you lost your confidence. I absolutely cannot begin to make sense of this at all. Honestly, if you came back and said this worked, I wouldn't believe you. |
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| Author: | speed-bird [ Fri Oct 23, 2009 7:51 am ] |
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That's why I asked if the guy could try it and report back. I have my doubts about this one and I certainly won't be putting it to the test. |
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| Author: | Brah [ Fri Oct 23, 2009 5:01 pm ] |
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this theory sounds terrible, though I think I've inadvertently adhered to it a few times. |
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| Author: | J__ [ Sat Nov 07, 2009 1:23 am ] |
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This idea/theory is very true and it is buried within human nature. The more the supply, the less the demand. If you're always around, you will be taken for granted and become a habit, people will push you away no matter how well of a PUA you are and how different you try to be. Everything in the world depends on absence and presence, a strong presences draws power towards you and makes you stand out amongst others, however too much of it and it has the opposite effect. The key is to know WHEN to pull out and disapear. Do it too early, and you're not established enough and you may be forgotten. Too late and ppl will subconsciously start to reject and ignore you. You'll have to find the fine balance of when to leave and make the deep impression you've established even deeper. Make ppl go into withdrawal from the lack of your attention. Make it so YOU have the power in deciding when you are and are not available. Also, if your absence is without reason, it's even more powerful. The other person's emotions will send their minds insane, they'll assume they are at fault for the cause of your leave, when you return they'll do everything in their power to ask for forgiveness. It's a fine game of hide and seek, play it well and you'll be able to get and keep any girl you want. |
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| Author: | Owinover [ Sun Nov 08, 2009 12:41 am ] |
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Quote: So.. Push/Pull on a larger scale in which you increase the chances of you getting blown out by being a total idiot and acting AFC and doing inconceivably idiotic shit to make yourself seem so blatantly unattractive that at the end of it, if it's worked, she may as well think of you as bipolar and extremely fucked up.
Fucking funniest post ever.
Do you really think this would work on ten's? Or even other girls with multiple suitors, seriously, this may work on like, UB's MAYBE, but it's not about the ten's. And arguably, the game is all about ten game. If it doesn't work on a ten (by your definition), then it's not worth practicing. |
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| Author: | Gamerx [ Mon Nov 16, 2009 6:33 pm ] |
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Actually this has worked for me. I was with the HB7 and I was acting kinda AFC around her. Then, I didn't ring her, didn't text her for over three weeks and earlier today she rang up saying she hasn't spoken to me in ages. Long story short, tonight we're going to the bar and I'll be able to turn into PUA and she'll be wanting to talk to me because she thinks she froze me out last time. Hopefully it'll all go well. N.B. I don't think it would work on any girl above a 7.5... |
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| Author: | Antithesis [ Thu Nov 19, 2009 10:08 pm ] |
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I think most girls will be creeped out by your initial behavior and just be very wary of you. It's definitely not going to work on a more attractive girl because they will have a regular seleciton of normal guys who don't go completely psycho's within the first few weeks. All she has to do is mention you and your odd behavior to one of those other guys, and you become a stepping stone for him to mock you, squash you and DHV all in one swoop. ~Antithesis |
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