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I try to make fun of her and to be funny, but I end up getting a lot of blank stares and they never seem like they are very into me. How should I act in this stage, do I need more cocky and funny or should I simply ignore them for a while.
Thanks for any input.
I was having a chat with some friends about how, when we are kids, we make fun of the girl we like and throw things at them etc, to try and hide our feelings. This is basically the ground work of negs, although negs are alot more advanced.
So when you say 'making fun of her', you could just be putting her down and making her feel bad. A neg is a backhanded compliment, so it shouldn't be too harsh, and after a few negs, if you do throw in a compliment, she'll feel like she's earned it. It also depends how hot she is. If she isn't amazing, go easy on the negs, cos she may just see you as an asshole.
Don't simply ignore her, cos in high school, she will probably get bored and go to someone else. If you are gaming her at school, obviously it's limited to how many routines you can use on her, so just make yourself interesting to talk to, read the newspaper or something so you might have some common topics to talk about, find out what shes into and see how it goes.