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Author:  V1V [ Wed Dec 17, 2008 5:07 pm ]
Post subject:  Improvised boyfriend destroyer??? - and inner game. V1V
This was completely on the improvised on the spot. I didnt even have a clue where i was going with it. But the results were durastic.
Most PUA's tell me that we shouldnt talk about her boyfriend - and just cut the thread if she brings it up. The main problem with this is she will be expecting you to do this - and will be watching out for it. Its a shit test half of the time - as well as a rejection. I honestly think its best to just elicit the flaws within the relationship, demonstrate that i am flawless - or at least less flawed in that area and take the legs out that the bf is standing on. I don't know if the following is NLP or w/e because quite frankly i havent had any experience in hypnosis whatsoever. It could just be a freak event and completely random. Could someone please tell me what the FUCK i done????
PUA: What would you say is the main flaw in your boyfriend?

HB: (Immediately without hesitation) Its like we don't know each other. When we first started dating we just yaknw - clicked. And both attracted each other. Now its just like - we love each other - but we aren't attracted or even know each other. We have changed.

PUA: Sounds really bad. And i pity you. But when you say that you have changed - its the opposite. Do you know that the first 8 months of a relationship - the things you do with each other is mainly an act? (thats bullshit by the way lol) Once you are comfortable with each other your true selves come out. So basically your behaviours change from dating - to a relationship. At least you dated well. In a lot of ways (this was the improvisation that left myself confused as to where it came from) a relationship is like a heater. (WTF!!!!????) You can have the outer layer - like the metal casing. This is basically the relationships structure. Which i think yours has. But like a heater, a relationship needs something more than a structure, to work the way it was inteded. It really needs something inside. Something that really fills up up the structure, it CONSUMES you, as you both mix together (pointing to self), rising towards the top so that all there is - is you both (pointing to self) and you become one (locked both of my own pinkys). Only when you have this can a relationship, work (gesturing to both of us). Give me your hand. (she complied) (and i placed both our hands on a radiator next to us, and she smiled at its warmth) (I then dropped her hand, leaned back and body rocked - and said-) Put your hand on the next heater along. (It was freezing) (and she LITERALLY - burst out in tears, absolutely sobbing. WTF!!!?>?? She then charged at me and hugged me)(Why ON EARTH did i too feel like crying???)

She finished her boyfriend that night. WOW. Was this a freak chance or something special?
Walking to college the next morning, I realised just what made me improvise something which made sense so effectively as quick as i did. That was pure inner game.

I started thinking about my metaphor heater. It applies to inner game. You can have a good outer game and know all of the techniques and methods. But the heater will still be freezing when you attempt to sarge if you havent bothered to practice on your inner game. The air will be hot, but will have nothing to conduct. The fluid inside, quite literally, makes your conversation and game - flow with heat.

Canned routines are good. For learning. But do not rely on them for life. Make yourself familiar with the concepts of them and use them in your own improvisation. Thats what they are best for. Learn your own by firstly using someone elses.

Now - Someone - What the hell did I do here? Was it just freak luck???
Author:  Fin [ Wed Dec 17, 2008 7:37 pm ]
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I'll be honest, she probably had plans to split with her BF, when she met you.

If the BF meniton was a ST, then your body launguage/vocal tonality passed it, key note to Shit tests, not what you answer, HOW you answer.

TBH:

For that speech to have contributed to a split up, she must of REALLY trusted you.

If she didn't, reverse psychology she would of become defensive and it would have strengthened the relationship as she tries to prove you wrong.

Thats my personal view, their may be others tho, hope it helps!
Author:  Jaybot [ Wed Dec 17, 2008 10:14 pm ]
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beautiful :'P ...... and the oscar goes to ..... V1V lol but yeah its insane what can happen when you just let go and don't think just act/talk
Author:  V1V [ Wed Dec 17, 2008 11:37 pm ]
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beautiful :'P ...... and the oscar goes to ..... V1V lol but yeah its insane what can happen when you just let go and don't think just act/talk
ahhh man another stupid oscar? can a brotha get a nobel prize once in a while? damn :P
Author:  Jaybot [ Thu Dec 18, 2008 12:00 am ]
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hehheh not just yet
Author:  Maestr0UK [ Thu Dec 18, 2008 12:42 am ]
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Very interesting points,

And i agree that if she had any feelings for her boyfriend and had no intention of splitting from him, then she would have defended the situation

On the other hand, the techniques you used sound very much like basic nlp to me, its like this, a smoker will say, i hate smoking i wish i could quit, so the intention is to quit, but that is much easier said than done, Incorporate some hypnosis/nlp into them and you can indeed stop them from smoking with your suggestions,

What to remember is if they didnt want to stop smoking then it wouldnt work, the inner self must want it, i believe she was on the verge of contemplating on ending her relationship and it is something she was planning on doing but for some reason she hadnt done it yet, and all you did was help the process, speed it up, make her aware that it was the right thing to do, it was what she wanted to do within herself she just hadnt brought herself to act on it, but again the wording you were using made her realise its what she wanted and that she had to act on it, you inturn made her do what she wanted to do, only she hadnt..

That may sound like Jibber Jabba to some but it is my thoughts and views.

Peace
Author:  madals [ Thu Dec 18, 2008 1:49 pm ]
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I am guessing you were very close anyways. She probably wanted to ditch the BF anyways.
It works great, there is just danager in asking whats wrong with the BF.
Generally, people become defensive and will defend their BF (they are already interacting, it might have been an emotional thing at first and they are rationalising it).
eg.
PUA: Whats the worst thing with your BF
her: My BF is great, there isnt a bad thing about him etc etc etc
eg2.
PUA: Wow, I bet your BF is perfect.
Her: Well actually, he isnt.......


V1V, I am curious tho, had you gamed her lots already? lots of comfort, attraction etc.
Madals
Author:  V1V [ Thu Dec 18, 2008 5:14 pm ]
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I am guessing you were very close anyways. She probably wanted to ditch the BF anyways.
It works great, there is just danager in asking whats wrong with the BF.
Generally, people become defensive and will defend their BF (they are already interacting, it might have been an emotional thing at first and they are rationalising it).
eg.
PUA: Whats the worst thing with your BF
her: My BF is great, there isnt a bad thing about him etc etc etc
eg2.
PUA: Wow, I bet your BF is perfect.
Her: Well actually, he isnt.......


V1V, I am curious tho, had you gamed her lots already? lots of comfort, attraction etc.
Madals
I have a gift with LJBF. I know how to drop people in it, and get myself out of it. It was a new experiment in which the target was a hb with a boyfriend. I basically went in to it and switched around the m3 model. I went straight for comfort first, to deliberately create the trust and be put into the friend zone. That way i can destroy boyfriends even more effectively as where if i was to go direct A and then C, she would be expecting me to try and destroy her bf. And she was with him for a fair while. Now Im in A2 SPAM. I still have the comfort, and seduction comes next :D.
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