Hey guys, so there is a girl I'm kinda dating
Translation: "I had sex with this girl a couple times...."
we never said explicitly that we are dating.
haha, knew it.
But the problem is she is very social (and I dont like that)
How do you think she met you?
You're acting possessive and needy. Look into controlling your emotions.
, like she is polite to anyone who approaches her and will not reject anyone (even the ugly guy), whenever I tried to handle some guy, she was like "you're possesive and jealous"
And you wonder why she hasn't brought up exclusivity, lol.
or she'd be like "that's my job, I like talking to people, that's my personality" (she's ESFP btw and she works as admission counsellor).
Translation: "Let me be free, you're needy!".
So soon we're going to a party together and there definitely be the guys who will not be aware of situation and will try to hit on her, not necessarrily flirt but they will try just talk to her. So the question is how do I ditch them without looking jealous or anything? And I know some of those guys but not all
As long as a guy doesn't touch her without my permission I don't really care. Plenty of guys hit on my gf. I like to let her do her own thing a lot when we go out (talk to people, make friends, etc), because freedom only grows a relationship. It's actually a huge compliment to see all the beta males stumbling around to get to my girl. The bull elk feeds calmly and watches, and is amused by the spike bucks.
When you become secure in yourself, and your relationship, and get laid 24/7, shit like this will not bother you.
If you don't like what she's doing, stop going out with her to those places. Let her have her chat sessions without you. when she behaves in a way that you like, she will be rewarded with your presence.