I didn't really know where to put this topic. I hope I won't be punished.
Also, english is not my native language, forgive me mistakes.There is The Girl. She has a bf. So far this is fresh relationship. Less than month. I have read about BF Destroyers and it's good stuff I use, but. I know BF Destroyers are only in use when you want to sleep with girls. I don't really wanna do that. I mean, not only sleeping. I'd like to start amazing relationship with her, even if it cost me much time. I'm not seeing with other girls anyway and I don't think I'll meet another like Her soon. Don't get me wrong. I'm fully conscious I'm acting like oneitis guys but I'm not. When I will meet better girl this will be end of Her. Right now it's less likely because She is truly amazing and as I have never fought for any woman, I want fight for her. She is worth every second of my time and effort.
I know I can give Her so much better time with me than the present bf, because this positive energy She gives me, make me wanna do things and have fun with her more than I ever experienced. Maybe I'm kinda in love, dunno.First I have to be prepared.
From this what I found, I came to the conclusions, that in order to succeed, first I need to become Her friend, gather intel and then use it against him with BF Destroyers or other techniques. And by friend I mean friend who is in friendzone? Then use 'getting out of friendzone' techniques? I'm thinking also about how often should I see Her. Once a week? Two? I suppose I should wait too long for her reaction, I mean, inviting me somewhere, or sth, but like She said, when She is in relationship, She is for man, so it may not work out well with waiting for Her response. She is also a bit impulsive, everywhere in hurry, starting things and not finish, adhd type. What I'm also suspecting, Her feelings are more susceptible because of Her impulsiveness. I meet with Her like once a week maybe two.
What I'm interested in it is general (but any details will be great) pattern or strategy for winning Her heart.
Any help will be appreciated with high fives. As soon as I'll succeed I'm going to give you all The Highest, Multiuniversal and Multidimensional of High Fives of All Times.:] Or owe you a big strong Polish beer.
Oh I forgot. We had a moments. We were really close, and then She said She's 'not ready for relationship'. Apparently week later She was. But it was enough for me to develope some deeper feelings.
And that is why I won't stop meeting girls. But finding better one than She is, it's kind of unbelievable for me at this moment. However I see one plus here. While thinking about Her I won't give myself to other girl all at once because that is my problem with relation with women. I have always gave myself too quickly. Probably in Her case too. Or even especially.