Wow. defenitely works
done with a HB 7 and immediately got her number followed by some patterns and got a kiss close. great. thanks
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| Author: | PUA Kenny [ Fri Jun 01, 2012 4:04 am ] |
| Post subject: | When you run out of things to say:use the 4-WH technique |
We've all been there,where you approach the attractive girl,open her- then stall!! For whatever reason,you weren't able to carrying the conversation[surprised by her initial beauty,a rush of approach anxiety]...so you C&B(Crash and Burn). It's 'SUPER' embarrassing when the HB you're chatting up can sense that you have nothing left in the fucking-verbal tank. Even more embarrassing and ego-deflating,is when you've only been chatting with her for 20 seconds[SMFH]!! Example of a common Crash & Burn (stall out in convo) Me:“Hey,just wanted to let you know you're beautiful .” HB:“Ok thanks”. Me:“So... what's up”? HB:“Nothing...” Me:“Ok,later then”. Very fucking awkward LOL! But a quasi conversation like above is very common for the average guy. Use The "3-WH" technique when you stall(originated by Speer of www.speermethod.com) Foreword:I personally don't use this anti-stall technique[never had].However,I do recommend it for dudes who have this issue in set. •Guys;grab your pens & pads and stop fucking procrastinating! •Take notes!! It's pretty simple:"3-WH" stands for: "When,Where,Why and How". •Basically ask the girl those 4 questions[doesn't have to be in this specific order].It can be done in online chatting also. Example of employing the "3-WH" when stalling Me:“Hey,is this the bus which gets me to the town market”? HB:“Yea it is”. Me:“Ok cool”. [Now,instead of standing there quietly like an anti-social loner(waiting on the bus next to the hot girl);continue the chat via 3-WH!!] Me:“So,WHAT is there to do in this town on the weekends”? HB:“Oh,we have a lot of sports bars and clubs,bla,bla,bla...” Me:“Cool.But I'm not really the bar-type.And WHERE is this Club Xtasy I keep hearing about BTW”? HB:“Oh,it's further downtown next to the X mall”. Me:“Really!?I've been to X mall 100 times but never seen this Club Xtasy”.And HOW's the SPAM and music there”? HB:“Oh it's cool!Very chilled most time.The DJ plays great music”. Me:“I might have to check it out next week or so.And WHEN is the best nights to go there? HB:“Fridays are off the hook.I usually go with my girls”. Me:“WHY is it that everybody parties around here on a Friday!!?I'm usually chilling on Fridays”. HB:“I don't know.Maybe because...”. So,there you have it guys;perfect example of using the 3-WH technique while waiting @ the bustop. This technique could be employed anywhere,in any venue,any situation,any medium(in person,online,etc.). As Speer would say:“Just 3-WH that shit”! Never should you have to stall again,nor wreck your brains trying to figure out what to say next to salvage this situation. So,the guys with bad memories(like I have):grab a pen and jot down the simple steps of 3-WH. Or do what I used to do also:just take notes in my phone(notepad app,text-messaging app,etc.),so you can having the info on the go. Practice it out loud as if you were chatting up an HB10 by asking those 4 questions. Few times doing this,you will grasp the simple concept to the point that it naturally flows while in field. Original article posted on my blog http://kennyspuathoughts.wordpress.com/ ... technique/ |
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| Author: | Eyyt [ Fri Jun 01, 2012 5:30 am ] |
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Wow. defenitely works done with a HB 7 and immediately got her number followed by some patterns and got a kiss close. great. thanks
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| Author: | PUA Kenny [ Fri Jun 01, 2012 1:29 pm ] |
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Quote: Wow. defenitely works
Oh for real!?That's great Eyyt.This routine or pattern is a great lead into a # close.
done with a HB 7 and immediately got her number followed by some patterns and got a kiss close. great. thanks |
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| Author: | Crypto [ Fri Jun 01, 2012 5:02 pm ] |
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Good solid information! Basically these are open ended questions, which almost demand more descriptive answers. Anyone who wishes to improve their communication skills should read up on open ended questions! Peace... |
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| Author: | PUA Kenny [ Fri Jun 01, 2012 5:26 pm ] |
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Quote: Good solid information! Basically these are open ended questions, which almost demand more descriptive answers. Anyone who wishes to improve their communication skills should read up on open ended questions!
Exactly Crypto!!Peace... That is the key to this technique being solid.The open loop type of questions which requires a semi-detailed answer. If it was just a yes or no thing,it'd be doom for the PUA who's chatting her up. Also,it's key too that the guy follows up with his input after hers.Don't just ask her the questions back to back(which would then seem robotic and awkward). Appreciate the cosign Crypto. Peace out! |
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| Author: | Crypto [ Fri Jun 01, 2012 5:51 pm ] |
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I agree: 1. Ask the open ended question. 2. Listen to her response (Actually listen) 3. Reinforce their answer (Some form of positive feedback) |
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| Author: | PUA Kenny [ Fri Jun 01, 2012 6:04 pm ] |
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Quote: I agree:
It all ties into great "Social Vibing".Seems like you have that down pat Crypto.
1. Ask the open ended question. 2. Listen to her response (Actually listen) 3. Reinforce their answer (Some form of positive feedback) |
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| Author: | Crypto [ Fri Jun 01, 2012 9:57 pm ] |
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Thanks! Damn, the forum actually trunicated my reply...Haha! |
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