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Author:  RiskTrump [ Thu Sep 29, 2011 2:59 am ]
Post subject:  How much to neg a girl?
I am in high school and i feel that i negg girls too much. Sometimes they even get after me and kind of resentful. I still stand my ground and a few times they (the targets) come back and try to get my attention. I am negging the popluar high school girls and models any ideas on how much to neg???
Author:  Slip n Slide [ Thu Sep 29, 2011 4:21 am ]
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Negging shouldn't be a foundation of your game. You need to be able to have a positive, happy conversation with anyone before introducing negging as a way to create intrigue and attraction with HB9+'s. Negging gets a lot of press, and it's big in Mystery Method, but it's barely a component of my game.
Author:  TechSkill [ Thu Sep 29, 2011 6:37 am ]
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Negging is a fantastic tool. I think your problem might be that you don't understand the true point of the neg. The point of the neg is to show that you have standards, and are not simply going to worship the ground she walks on. When you neg, you do NOT want to pick on things that she is insecure about. You want to bring up insightful and slightly humorous little errors about her. It brings you to her level, when she thinks she's better than you. The goal of the neg is obviously not to belittle her. The goal is to make her realize that she is in the presence of someone who doesn't try to seek approval by kissing ass. A well placed compliment is equally important, so don't ONLY neg. I believe it was Mystery who said, "Two steps forward, one step back". With a very beautiful woman, the neg is the step forward, but the compliment is the step back. Every interaction doesn't actually follow a ratio of 2:1 though, it's completely situational.

Another point I'd like to make is that the "neg" is only needed to settle her ego. If she isn't being conceited, and if she's being down to earth, a neg is hardly necessary!
Author:  SenastorV1 [ Fri Oct 07, 2011 11:53 pm ]
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The good thing about negs is that they can either go one way or another...

PUA: Your eye brows are uneven
HB: (seriously) your rude !!
PUA: oh well thats me, girl walks off

or

PUA: Your eye brows are uneven
HB: (seriously) your rude !!
PUA: dont worry, it suits you, or dont worry your smile counteracts it

etc

Or you can throw in a subtle neg, this one some one replied to one of my posts with , cant remember who posted it but i dont take credit for it..

There are three things i like about you, one your smile
Two your energetic personality
and Three, well i cant tell you, because then you will stop doing it (cocky smile)

i like that one, hoped it helped :)

Senastor
Author:  tippicanoe [ Sat Oct 08, 2011 12:59 am ]
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Neg based on confidence level. If they are very confident and get a lot of guys vying for their attention then you can neg a lot less subtly and get away with it, but it should always be jokingly and with a smile. Like all the other guys said negs shouldn't be a large part of gaming. They are an indicator of disinterest, too many of these and even the most confident people will walk away because they are tired of you treating them like shit. I've been on the receiving end of this, before I discovered the community, in the friend zone and the girl constantly negged me. It was her favorite hobby to tease me. Eventually got tired of it and left her. May still want me, I don't care though because it isn't worth getting treated badly. Point of the story, if you don't show her your interested or that you like her at some point she is going to leave, or develop a messed up mentality about what she likes in a guy. Either way it isn't good. If you can DHV a lot, then negging won't be necessary and she will like you for who you are. If you can't DHV and just neg your game is hollow and she will be able to spot this when she gets to know you better, and soon she won't want to know you any better.
Author:  Crimsonian [ Sat Oct 08, 2011 7:39 am ]
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Keep in mind that Mystery defines the neg as “not an insult but a negative social value judgment that is telegraphed.” It can be done extremely subtly, like asking a blonde if her hair color is natural. That could hardly be deemed offensive, but psychologically, it works to show her you have standards and you don't just blindly worship any pretty blonde who walks your way.

So in the end, I'd say any good PUA, whether the Mystery Method is his MO or not, is going to be using negs from time to time. Their purpose is essential to pick-up. Especially with the hottest of hot girls.
Author:  Stand Up [ Sat Oct 08, 2011 8:19 am ]
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negging is unnecessary if you are able to engage her attention. so it really depends how interesting you are. If you can't generate interest without negging then one or two soft negs is fine.
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