PUA Forum :: Texting after a first date!

So i have recently been chatting to this girl - she is a friend of my ex. I know that her being friends with my ex isn't an issue with her because she suggested we meet up. So I've just got back from meeting up with her. I'm in a slightly tricky situation because I don't know whether she is just wanting to be friends or something a bit more. How long should I wait before I drop her a text or initiate contact again? I don't want to seem needy or craving her attention.

Any help you guys could give me would be great. I just want to know how I can figure out if she wants more than friendship and how long do I wait before I text her.

I'm new to the game so suggestions would be brilliant.

Thanks in advance guys!

Author:	berg101 [ Fri Aug 26, 2011 11:36 pm ]
Post subject:	Texting after a first date!
So i have recently been chatting to this girl - she is a friend of my ex. I know that her being friends with my ex isn't an issue with her because she suggested we meet up. So I've just got back from meeting up with her. I'm in a slightly tricky situation because I don't know whether she is just wanting to be friends or something a bit more. How long should I wait before I drop her a text or initiate contact again? I don't want to seem needy or craving her attention. Any help you guys could give me would be great. I just want to know how I can figure out if she wants more than friendship and how long do I wait before I text her. I'm new to the game so suggestions would be brilliant. Thanks in advance guys!

Author:	Slip n Slide [ Sat Aug 27, 2011 1:28 am ]
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Quote: So i have recently been chatting to this girl - she is a friend of my ex. I know that her being friends with my ex isn't an issue with her because she suggested we meet up. So I've just got back from meeting up with her. I'm in a slightly tricky situation because I don't know whether she is just wanting to be friends or something a bit more. How long should I wait before I drop her a text or initiate contact again? I don't want to seem needy or craving her attention. Any help you guys could give me would be great. I just want to know how I can figure out if she wants more than friendship and how long do I wait before I text her. I'm new to the game so suggestions would be brilliant. Thanks in advance guys! How'd the date go? If you don't feel like you would be comfortable putting your arm around her if you saw her right now, she's probably wondering whether or not you like her, or you missed your chance with that one date. If it went well, send a text in a couple days when you're in a good mood and ask to see her again!

Author:	berg101 [ Sat Aug 27, 2011 10:29 am ]
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The date went well, we were constantly laughing and there was never dead air. I don't know at this stage if I would be comfortable putting my arm around her. If it was a girl I had picked up in a bar then it wouldn't bother me but because I have met her a few times in a friend capacity with my ex I feel slightly wary. Do you have any suggestions to move it forward and determine whether she wants to be more than friends? Thanks

Author:	*FlaiR* [ Sat Aug 27, 2011 3:14 pm ]
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Quote: The date went well, we were constantly laughing and there was never dead air. I don't know at this stage if I would be comfortable putting my arm around her. If it was a girl I had picked up in a bar then it wouldn't bother me but because I have met her a few times in a friend capacity with my ex I feel slightly wary. Do you have any suggestions to move it forward and determine whether she wants to be more than friends? Thanks Did you ever qualify yourself to her? Maybe not.. and it's the most important thing.. because than you can see if she really wants you to be more than friends.. you know what to do? next time you see her.. just the two of you...talk about something while she's close to you.. than say: "Omg.. I so want to tell you something" She: "What?" You: "Oh nothing it's really stupid.." while looking away from her She: "No come on please I want to know." You: "Ok well.. I just really like you.." This is a very good routine for qualification so after you say that.. look at her reaction.. does she smile.. is happy and liked it? If so.. she's probably interested.. and even if she didn't say anything.. youre just looking for a red light... a IOD.. if she gave you none.. it means you're on.. also women like guys that are hard to get.. don't constantly text her each day.. wait like 4 days and than text her something like.. "hey my friend and I wanted to go shopping this saturday.. but he can't come anymore.. come with me.. I don't want to go alone.." Don't ask for a date, but plant the invitation in an indirect way... Hope I helped.. tell me how it goes man!

Author:	JohnnyMagic86 [ Sat Aug 27, 2011 4:51 pm ]
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Because you guys had fun I would set up another hang out. This time you have to kino escalate. Gradually build it up and get closer. Remember to push and pull a little bit. After you get some good kino going frame shift and slow down a bit. Get some sexual tension going.

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