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Author:  frenchcuffs [ Tue Oct 30, 2007 2:30 am ]
Post subject:  can you solve this one? please hellllp!
I dont like to read long long posts, so I will give a quick rundown.

College field trip for class, saw a girl from another class standing alone. talked it up, got her number. a shy girl, very quiet.laughed at my jokes. asked questions when I let the convo drop.

texted her same night saying it was a pleasure to meet her and to save my number. she replied all smiles.

the next day I call her, she is on the way to library to study, we talk for a minute and she asks if I want her to call me after shes done. I say cool. she doesnt call back, but she texts later saying shes so sorry and that she was studying all day and sleeping. I text back "you and me both :) im about to pass out ill call you tomorrow."

which leads me to today. I am on campus. I shoot her a text seeing if shes around, she replies saying she wasnt and that she has classes in the mornings. I dont reply to this, instead I give her a ring 15 mins later because I was dicking around the bookstore.she didnt answer. I didnt leave a message. thats it

NOW

this is all in the span of 48 hours. I figure I will leave the ball in her court till wendesday, yes? My problem is im the type of person who wonders why she hasnt called back. I know females are flakes but when I like someone I call em back. its a superficial attraction at this point, but how should I go about this to get her out/on the line/communicating? I am aware of being overbearing which is why im cutting the calls for a couple days. am I over analyzing such a small period of time?

I have NO problems talking to girls after the initial number close. I just need to get her on the phone or out in person, I can handle the rest. Any help to make this work would be greatly appreciated.
Author:  Aceospades12 [ Tue Oct 30, 2007 3:24 pm ]
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she replied all smiles.
this means she's interested
Quote:
"you and me both :D im about to pass out ill call you tomorrow."
i wouldnt have said this - ur showing TOO much interest this early on
i would have said - "no big deal i was (playing bball with my friends or @ a party, etc.) anyways. ttyl."
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My problem is im the type of person who wonders why she hasnt called back.
Dude- this is exactly what u want HER to be thinking. YOU are chasing HER - flip it and reverse it. Freeze her out for a few days till she contacts u. If she does - ur in - play it cool from there - ur the prize.
if she doesnt after a few days - "accidentally" see her on campus. or drop her a text saying: "i need a study break - coffee @ ___"
or "party @ ___."

cheers
Author:  frenchcuffs [ Tue Oct 30, 2007 4:04 pm ]
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yea I figured I would drop the calls for a few days and see what happens. I hate this part about the shy girl though good chance she wont call I feel - I havent had a chance to show her anything in the way of conversation since we spoke for only a few mins on the first day and about a minute on the second.

I know when and where her spanish class lets out though, I could arrange a 'run-in' as shes goin through the hall. whatev, im overthinking everything..time to cool the jets for a day or two. any other info would be appreciated as well.. thanks again Ace!
Author:  Aceospades12 [ Tue Oct 30, 2007 7:10 pm ]
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no prob man
if u have any specific questions
feel free to pm me

in the mean time gl with the "run-in"

cheers
Author:  masterPUA [ Wed Oct 31, 2007 12:13 am ]
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well... im in the same situation. you see, what ive noticed is that you have initiated all the convo, not her. what im doing, and it might work for you. is letting things simmer down, and if she wants to talk to me than she will have to start the convo. until then, im not giving up anything, not even eye contact. in other words play hard to get.
Author:  frenchcuffs [ Wed Oct 31, 2007 3:45 am ]
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this girl is 18 and all 18 year olds are scatterbrained. it feels like I just havent gotten to her yet. All I did was take her number and thus far there have been zero opportunities to demonstrate any value whatsoever(aside form the couple jokes and good convo, all of 5 minutes). playing TOO hard to get may be a negative because she isnt even wondering yet since she doesnt know me more than seeing and talking to me once for a few minutes.

playing a little hard to get after a solid session of game may be the way to go but right now its how to go out on the line without it being seen by her(doing the run-in, texting her or calling her another day..gotta make legit contact without it seeming out of my way). I cant totally freeze someone out who wont notice it.

Im lookin for a solid plan of action. an entrance strategy suited for this type of situation.
Author:  Gammbit [ Wed Oct 31, 2007 5:26 pm ]
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i agree with ace on this but try another girl..

show her that u are in demand.

if she ses u with other girls she will regret not texting u. but when u text her ... say a week later.. then she will jump at the chance to talk to u.

be a pua basically. good luck
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