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Author:  furiousracer313 [ Mon Aug 22, 2011 4:39 pm ]
Post subject:  Great two set, troubled text game. Opinions needed
So Saturday night I went out with my buddies. I found a 2 set, Girl 1 was talking to another guy, while Girl 2 was next to her looking around. So I went and opened Girl 2. Started talking for a little bit and did the best friends test on them and this pushed away the other guy talking to Girl 1. The girls loved it. They then started telling me how they loved my confidence. I told them that I was a personal trainer and Girl 2 said that she would love me to train her, while Girl 1 was feeling my muscles (chest and arm). I then got Girl 2 number and told her that I needed to find my friends so I'll be back.

I walked by her again this time she was with 2 more girls. Talked for a bit as they started to split up and I asked "Want to sit for a bit?" She replied with "I can't I'm chaperoning my girls." So I left it at that. I texted her after I left the club (around 1 hour and 30mins later) "Hey its (my name) from (place). I hope you got home safe :)" She replied in the morning with "Hey! I did. Thank you :)" So later on in the day I replied with this"

Me: STOP!
Her: ??
Me: Stop thinking of me and smiling :)
Her: Oh. Hey how old are you
Me: 21.... You? (I think this is where it went wrong, I should've said 24)
Her: Ok that explains it lol
Her: I'm 26
Me: Nice. Just saw something funny that reminded me of you. Lol
Her: But you don't know me, how can something remind you of me?
Me: It's something we talked about, I'll show you in a sec.
Me: Remember your friend said I should teach classes, and you thought she said I should wear reading glasses?
Her: Ok
Me: (I sent a pic of me wearing reading glasses at walmart) Well you said reading glasses would look sexy on my, so here you go! Lol, whats the verdict?
Her: Maybe one with darker rims. Not that.
Me: I agree. Walmarts selection isnt the best. You go to uptown much?
Her: Are you in school?
Me: Yes. I'm at (university) for the film program.
Me: How long have you been working as a pediatric assistant?



Then no reply for the rest of the day. I'm thinking of sending this later today "You wouldnt happen to have a twin would ya? But idk. I'll give her one more chance before dropping her.

Any suggestions and criticisms?
Author:  furiousracer313 [ Tue Aug 23, 2011 3:38 pm ]
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So I sent one last text last night (one day later from the previous texts) saying "Hey what are you up to?" And no reply. So I'm dropping her. But for future reference, what can I improve?

Thanks!
Author:  tidalwaverider [ Tue Aug 23, 2011 4:13 pm ]
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You could still invite her out. Text her something like "It's hot out. Let's grab ice cream at the nearest Coldstone's." You asked her a boring question about being a pediatric assistant. That shit's kryptonite. You should have got some playful banter going like, "Darker rims? Ooo... so someone's a fashion expert. Bet I could out fashion you. Seriously, let's go to the mall. I'll prove it." The canned lines beginner PUAs use are basically an example of shit to say... things that lighten the mood and keep it romantic. Is she worth pursuing? If she is, PLOW with playful one sentence lines out of the blue at random times. High quality girls flake on a few texts because a lot of people want their attention, so boring questions are easily ignored. If you keep the kryptonite away, you can be Superman.
Author:  juice man [ Tue Aug 23, 2011 5:18 pm ]
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dude that conversation went down hill as soon as the questions started coming. try to keep it open ended. instead of asking " so do you go to skool" be like " so if u go to school please tell me u going round tryng to make other guys drool over you so u wear heels and make up to classes etc etc" u know like shit out of the oridnary. U opened great u got great IOIs but stop and read the convo look where it start to go down hill.

NOTE: that age question she asked you is kinda hard to answer. maybe you should of said soething that would have made her qualify her to urself like for eg

HER: how old are you
YOU: i could be too old for you, tell me ur age and ill tell you if im too old.
(you are young looking so she is not gonna believe it


Bro good job man keep up the good work. im not destroying your game but look where it went down hill man. HAPPY LAYINGS
Author:  TheFreshPrince [ Tue Aug 23, 2011 5:35 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Great two set, troubled text game. Opinions needed
Quote:
Me: STOP!
Her: ??
Me: Stop thinking of me and smiling :)
Her: Oh. Hey how old are you
Me: 21.... You? (I think this is where it went wrong, I should've said 24)
Her: Ok that explains it lol
Her: I'm 26
Me: Nice. Just saw something funny that reminded me of you. Lol
Her: But you don't know me, how can something remind you of me?
Me: It's something we talked about, I'll show you in a sec.
Me: Remember your friend said I should teach classes, and you thought she said I should wear reading glasses?
Her: Ok
Me: (I sent a pic of me wearing reading glasses at walmart) Well you said reading glasses would look sexy on my, so here you go! Lol, whats the verdict?
Her: Maybe one with darker rims. Not that.
Me: I agree. Walmarts selection isnt the best. You go to uptown much?
Her: Are you in school?
Me: Yes. I'm at (university) for the film program.
Me: How long have you been working as a pediatric assistant?
It's clear you've spent time learning text game routines. But when you're speaking to these girls in person, do you jump from routine to routine to routine? No. You open with one, to grab their interest, then you keep them interested in YOU and the US factor by suggesting activities. I don't care for texting much because it causes miscommunication and is much less personable (amongst other things). So I only use it for a few lines back and forth to set up a next event.

After that first opener, you should have seen this girl is just either not into that kind of humor, having a bad day, or just prudish in nature. My guess is the latter, because she's looking down on you for being a few years younger. Lame.

Why should age matter? I always answer with "12" or "86" or something. But honestly in your case I don't know if it would have helped or hurt, because she seems kind of stuck up.

You didn't build any connection in the texts. You should have brought up some stuff from your guys' past and built on that to make you guys seem more connected. Then you wouldn't have her weirding out on the whole "reminded me of you" thing.

It's clear early on that she's just not interested. Not necessarily your fault, so I wouldn't worry about it in this case. When she's responding with stuff like "Ok", I would eject and fill my time with something else.

All in all, you seem like you got funny down, but now try to have genuine conversations with girls, just throwing in your humor to lighten the mood. You just need to build that interpersonal connection with them, so that they see you as more than that entertainment piece they met at the bar once. Tailor conversations per girl.
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