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Author:  noorosha [ Mon Aug 08, 2011 10:11 pm ]
Post subject:  Made damn sure she knows its a date - Advice Needed

OK this is a new one

Went out on first date with an HB9, shared a passionate kiss and generally had a really good connection.

Speaking earlier today she is keen to see me again. She happens to run an open-mic night locally, and is a performer herself. I love this kind of thing and said I wanted to come along and perform myself.

This wasn't a case of wanting "to impress" - but I actually like doing stuff that scares the shit out of me...

Anyway - she was really excited about the idea of me coming along and I have no doubts about doing a good job of performing, but...

The advice I need is how to make sure the evening maintains a decent level of sexual tension. It's easy enough when you've got a girl one-on-one, but she will be there with the other organisers and will probably be a little awkward at any overt kino or flirting.

So my question is, how do I make damn sure she knows I'm there as a date and not "just some guy turning up"? Some practical tips on how I can keep the sexual tension high in a group dynamic, where she is the event organiser - would be great.

I am thinking subtle kino (so as not to make her feel awkward among ppl she knows), strong eye contact, being the alpha of the group she's with and finishing off with some direct game at the end of the night is the best combo.

Thoughts much appreciated!!

Author:  TheMagicalHindu [ Tue Aug 09, 2011 4:34 am ]
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Its a fine line. You are going to want to be present throughout the night (many people make the mistake of getting out of the way when she has 'duties') but at the same time not get in her way.
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I am thinking subtle kino (so as not to make her feel awkward among ppl she knows), strong eye contact, being the alpha of the group she's with and finishing off with some direct game at the end of the night is the best combo.
You're 100% on point with that.

Author:  noorosha [ Tue Aug 09, 2011 8:05 am ]
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Thanks for the advice - ill be sure to stick around throughout the event (only two hours) and grab some alone time with her at the end

Any further ideas welcome!

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