PUA Forum
https://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/

the classic aboutface the next day, wtf???
https://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/viewtopic.php?f=53&t=98137
Page 1 of 1

Author:  Refelex [ Sun Aug 07, 2011 6:24 am ]
Post subject:  the classic aboutface the next day, wtf???

Dear Countrymen, Men of Honor, Men of the Sword,

I need yo advice, big time

So I met a HB9 at a pub. My game was solid, like SOLID, within 30 minutes we were in excellent kino and comfort, hand holding, her hands around my waist, she put her hand under my shirt a few times, she asked me a lot of questions, we kissed a little, nothing crazy, I avoided telling her she was hot, just a couple of times and during opening, and instead rewarded her with my approval of certain aspects of her personality and humor.

BUUUUUUT......as time progressed, she did a couple of more shots, then she was pretty much drunk. When we met she may have had 1 shot and could walk and be normal. But now, fuck, she was not gone, but drunk. At some point I had already managed to get her phone number because I could sense she was gonna be drunk so that was covered. Then she disappeared and came back to her friend who was sitting and dancing besides us smooching with a geek with uber game. She wanted to leave and walked to valet, got car got in no goodbye nothing. I walked up to her by window and she basically was pissed off that she had puked in the bathroom.

I went got her friend, put them on their way home sent text to let me know they got home ok. I did get that text later.

Next day at around 2pm I texted her:

ME: "Hey did you have fun? ;) Im going to do some shopping, come with me"
HB: I have to do some stuff, but have fun
ME:Ok Ill give you a buzz later, when can you talk:
HB: (No answer)

At about 6pm I called, no answer so right away I texted her one more time:
ME" Hey are you going out today? Lets hang out ,you're fun ;)
HB: (No answer)


.......dear lord, my game was solid, I swear.....but Im guessing she may feel "dirty" because she got drunk, or I was just some guy she partied with at pub...whatever.....I

What should I freaking do now?

Author:  wildwillywebber [ Sun Aug 07, 2011 6:38 am ]
Post subject: 

Use facebook... use that connection as an opportunity to maybe party with her again. but wait it out a little bit if she doesn't reply to you or anything. Thats what I would do anyway. Dont let yourself get hung up on it.

Author:  #1 Jish [ Sun Aug 07, 2011 3:12 pm ]
Post subject: 

You are ruining all of your good work by letting your neediness effect you.

in my opinion you were too full on inviting out a girl you just met the night before, all on the first text without even building comfort or anything first.

you haven't ruined the interaction by any means, just don't keep texting her

Author:  Refelex [ Sun Aug 07, 2011 5:39 pm ]
Post subject: 

thanks....so dont text her nor call her for like a week?

Page 1 of 1 All times are UTC
Powered by phpBB® Forum Software © phpBB Group
http://www.phpbb.com/