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| Author: | mtizzle [ Fri Aug 05, 2011 11:16 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Need Help Setting a Date via Text |
Hello Everyone! This is my first post. Thank you in advance for reading all this. Background: I met this girl Tuesday at a party. I felt a lot of good energy, and received a positive text message from her the next day. Since I replied, she's been a bit slow in responding, and I failed to set a date for Thursday (she was busy). What's my next move to setup something while DHV? ~~~~~~~TEXT MSG~~~~~~~~ HER (8/3 4:45PM): Hey Michael! It was such a pleasure meeting you last night ME (8/3 6:04PM): Hi Heather! I really enjoyed last night as well. Not much sun in the office. lol, but I'll make up for it this weekend. Your Dr. Phil moment... well, just don't do it again (no response from her) ME (8/4 1:09PM): Hey I'm going to the valley (close to her) this evening but my buddy flaked... do you wanna come? We can hang out, do whatever. HER (8/4 6:05PM): Hey Michael! I think I'll b in Hollywood tonight. But I'll keep u posted! Thinking of going to see my friend perform at the Roxy ME (8/4 7:24 PM): Nice! I can't stay out late tonight anyway, but if you want we can grab a few drinks in WeHo (close to Roxy Theater and myself), I live 15 min away! Then after, you can go see your friend at the Roxy. Win-win HER (two sec later): Ok perfect, heading to the W in Westwood (W Hotel) now so I'll let you know when I leave ME (8/4 7:52 PM): Saweet! Give me a 25min heads up. HER (8/4 8:19PM): Deal! ME (8/4 8:50PM): How's it looking over there? (no response) ME (8/4 10:34 PM): Hey I'd really like to hang out sometime but at this point tonight's just not going to work :-/. Have fun at the Roxy! HER (8/4 11:07 PM): Ok no problem, next time ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ In hindsight, I mis-read her text. I assumed she'd meet me at the W Hotel, but in fact it looks like she was grabbing drinks with friends at the W Hotel and was planing on meeting me after. What's my next move?? Thank you for reading all this! Mike |
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| Author: | pleasureseeker [ Mon Aug 08, 2011 6:04 am ] |
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you may have already lost her... I would say don't txt her for at least a few days. Your really clingy and needy already.... and you keep asking her out over txt... txting is to make her think about you but not usually to ask her out. Ignore her for a few days if she texts you, show LESS interest be LESS clingy, don't ask her out yet... tease her a little/ ignore her then CALL her and ask her out in a couple days. IF she doesn't text back, call her up start a conversation, if your feeling her give her a choice to see you this day or that day (don't give her the option to say no). Wait at least 3 days before contacting her again. |
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