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Author:  Tyler1187 [ Sun Jul 31, 2011 5:25 am ]
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So basically ill talk to this girl.. and she gives me iois, running hands through my hair, putting arm around me.

ill like have a good talk with her then end it after a good laugh and go talk to my friends.

she will put these iois but i don't know how much interest i should give her back..

cause i am interested but i don't wanna show too much and come off as easy/clingy like i have done in the past.. so what should i do
Author:  GameIsOn [ Sun Jul 31, 2011 5:36 am ]
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Escalate, if you wait too long she's gonna think you're gay or something. It's a general rule to not show more interest than she is showing but the girl won't k-close so you got to do it.

Good luck!
Author:  Tyler1187 [ Sun Jul 31, 2011 5:45 am ]
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no idk what to do lol cause this girl has a phobia of being touched.. unless she is the one starting it... i think i gotta build a shit load of comfort with her
Author:  GameIsOn [ Sun Jul 31, 2011 6:24 am ]
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no idk what to do lol cause this girl has a phobia of being touched.. unless she is the one starting it... i think i gotta build a shit load of comfort with her
There's no such thing unless it's a disease. I can kino anyone at the introduction, I just need to say "hi" and i'm kinoing already, you don't need comfort to kino, you need comfort to escalate.
Author:  Tyler1187 [ Mon Aug 01, 2011 2:03 am ]
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no idk what to do lol cause this girl has a phobia of being touched.. unless she is the one starting it... i think i gotta build a shit load of comfort with her
There's no such thing unless it's a disease. I can kino anyone at the introduction, I just need to say "hi" and i'm kinoing already, you don't need comfort to kino, you need comfort to escalate.

it seriously is a phobia.. she freaks out when someone touches her.. im one of the only guys not touching her and she feels better around me and starts off the kino and i kino back.. then push away haha
Author:  GameIsOn [ Mon Aug 01, 2011 8:57 am ]
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Then why would you be with a girl you can't touch anyways?
Author:  iSmooth [ Mon Aug 01, 2011 7:45 pm ]
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good luck bud
Author:  Tyler1187 [ Thu Aug 04, 2011 1:45 am ]
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so i should isolate her and go for the k close.
Author:  biggus [ Thu Aug 04, 2011 12:12 pm ]
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The fact she has a phobia or some shit and that she likes it when you touch her = she digs you. make a move, escalate, treat being around her as if you and her are totally alone and every action you do is feels sexual.

Also if she does have some touching phobia clinically, you are compounding the issue by pushing away, please dont do that. You want to encourage her to feel it's socially acceptable to have physical contact not reinforce her inner reality that being touched is bad, even by reflection.
Author:  Tyler1187 [ Fri Aug 05, 2011 7:14 pm ]
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The fact she has a phobia or some shit and that she likes it when you touch her = she digs you. make a move, escalate, treat being around her as if you and her are totally alone and every action you do is feels sexual.

Also if she does have some touching phobia clinically, you are compounding the issue by pushing away, please dont do that. You want to encourage her to feel it's socially acceptable to have physical contact not reinforce her inner reality that being touched is bad, even by reflection.
well i mean push as in push and pull
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