I'll try to keep it short:
I met this cute girl months ago on Facebook when she randomly added me. We texted for a few weeks before hand a lot and teased each other and such and I got to know her. She visited for a week at that time since she went to college hours away. Her and I went to dinner and then a movie and talked for a while. I did some kino routines before the movie started and she was really into the ESP stuff and wanted me to do it again afterwards since I guessed her right every time. I tried to escalate some kino during the movie by me putting my hand on her thigh ect. She didn't really seem to care but she also didn't reciprocate. We hugged and said goodbye afterwords.
I then became an AFC(was really into her) and texted her shortly after saying I enjoyed it and would like to do something with her again sometime when she gets back and I hope she was uncomfortable ect. She responded saying she had fun too and would like to hang out but only as friends!
I then texted that I must have mis-read her bla bla bla to which she replied that happens a lot ect. I then said in a playful manner that I don't think she's really my type anyway.We teased each other some more the following week but I then I just dropped her when she didn't respond to a good comeback.
So months go by and she graduates college and moves back to my town where she works for now. Now I've been out of the game for the past few months due to taking tons of college courses including now but I said what the heck and texted her Happy Birthday (facebook reminded me)
She replied saying thanks and asking how I have been ect. to which I said really busy and asked her about her job(she works in a nursing home but thinks hospitals are cooler).
Anyway my last text a few days ago was:
Me : Hey..old people are cool too. That's neat, I'm sure you have a lot of stories. What's your 1 year plan?
Her: reapplying to med school next year but may stay here and work or live in (her state) with friends...still haven't decided yet.
I then left it at that and it's been a week.
Should I just drop her for good?
I figure if she were interested she would have texted me back but she rarely did that before too. I guess I have no chance on her and am too deep in the friend zone to recover. Sadly she's one of the only girls I'm in touch with at the moment since everyone I know has graduated this past spring. But I was thinking maybe throwing a hail mary text since I assume she doesn't have many friends here since her parents just moved to my town a few years ago. Something along the lines of:
Me: That's cool, well maybe I'll cya around. We should go downtown/get drinks sometime while your here, that is if your not afraid of a challenge at pool
((challenged me last time).Or should I just say
Me: Cool, maybe I'll cya around, it's a small town. and see if she brings up the idea herself (mutual interest)? Or is that too AFCish?
Man I've been out of the game for like 6 months and you really do turn into an AFC fast if you don't practice.
