So I went to dinner with my parents and my fathers old college roommate on Saturday night (my parents anniversary). (I am 21 years old and a student). My fathers old college roommate has two beautiful daughters, age 22 and 20, perfect right?
Anyways, we first went to their house and then dinner then back to their house. During which, we covered many conversations, one of which was our plans for fourth of july. Neither of them really had plans, so I took this as an opportunity to invite them to my place (I live at the university for the summer, lots of partying, etc.). I gave them both my number, and told them to text me their names to make it easier.
I did that for two reasons (I always do it that way, when in groups of friends, etc). The reasons being:
1) Gives the opportunity for the girl to back down without being rude, best for 'friend of friend' and other such acquaintances. Keeps it from being awkward later.
2) Tells me who is interested. Often I go into groups of multiple women that I would sleep with (this being one of those scenarios), and I isolate who is interested.
The older one didn't text me her name, oh well. The younger one did though. And the text message conversations progressed like this:
Note: My initial text seems awkward, but it was because she was right across the room from me when I sent it. We went to their place at 5, and we expected to get out of there in time to go out Saturday night, but it didn't work out.
Me: Sorry if I ruined your plans =/
HB: no not at all rents are stupid
Me: you're preaching to the choir. I know exactly how it is
At this point she looks at me, rolls her eyes and smiles
Couple hours pass, we've just left her place, it's around midnight.
HB: im good now. haha. thanx though
Me: They let you go? Wow.. I need to take some tips from you
We're both indian => strict parents
HB: haha. it just gets annoying to ask to do everything.
Me: Yeah I know how it is... your bf must be displease though
HB: bf? haha i dont have one
Me: Good decision.. I just got out of a relationship, and I have to admit the single life has its perks.. maybe I just haven't found the right girl yet though.
HB: aw man was she indian? wat happened?
a couple minutes pass, (I'm typing a long text)
HB: sorry im being nosy
Me: She is persian and we had only been dating for a little over a month. The reason I brouke up with her is because she was really high maintaince. Everytime we hung out it was a big production and we had to get dressed up and go to georgetown or whatever. Which is nice, don't get me wrong, I love being able to wine and dine a woman, but sometimes I want to just chill.. you know? And no you're not being nosy. I'm surprised you want to hear it honestly.
HB: oh okay.. yeah thats too much! i mean i was jw because its interesting. idk haha. just enjoying someones company is wat makes a relationship. u know?
Me: Exactly. I'm glad were on the same page. It was partially my fault, going into the relationship I knew it had a slim chance of working but my friends told me to go for it because shes very attractive, but its like you said.. i didn't enjoy her company that much.
HB: yeah! gotta like the persoe atleast.haha. but im glad youre enjoying the single life. yo we gotta party some time!
It's around 2AM, I assume she's gotten pretty "tipsy"
Me: Definitely. I'm in college park almost always, even weekends and thats not far from bowie. When are you free?
HB: yeah its only 15 min. away. im free whenever really
Me: Perfect. Still want to go see bad teacher?
Me: Better question, do you have a fake.
HB: haha ofcourse! and no man
gotta get one!Me: Yeah you do! If you still need something to do tomorrow, UMD has a fireworks show and my friends havinga bbq if you're interested.
HB: okay totally. ill let you know wats happening tmwr. for me. its all up in the air right now.
Me: Sounds like I should let you get back to your friends so you can figure it out.
I'll text you tomorrow when I'm back in College Park.HB: sounds good! ttyl:)
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The next day:
Me: Figure out what you're doing tonight?
HB: yeah prob. goin to bmore.
Me: Sweet, I'm sticking around CP, have fun
HB: ok coolio! you too!
At this point, I feel like she's not interested, and I've made the decision not to text her again.
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Tuesday (a day later she texts me):
HB: how was ur 4th?!
Me: It was awesome, we had a lot of wine left from our tour de franzia so I drank a little more than I should have
but we sneaked onto the top of the football stadium and we were able to see the DC skyline, so we saw like 5 fireworks shows. You?HB: haha! thats awesome man! yeah lastnights a little fuzy
Me: Yeah I know how that is, I'm paying for it now tough, studying for my final tomorrow (summer class)
... You shoulda came here, I guarantee it was a better time than baltimore!HB: i mean i was there for the day. and than just went to my neibors party. but def. next time
Me: Oh okay, I thought you went up there for fireworks... and yeah, let me know when you're free and we'll hang out.
HB: yeah definitely
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So I've been thinking for an opener to use on her thursday afternoon, and then I can set up thurs night or weekend plans with her. Possibilities:
1) I just saw something that reminded me of you..
her: "what?"
"a commercial for bad teacher, still wanna go?
"2) So am I gonna have a much better time than you again, or do you wanna do something this weekend?
I'm just really not sure. She's given a lot of IOIs but then flaked... but post-flake, she texted me. I suspect that her parents didn't let her out on the night of the 4th which may have been the reason she flaked.