PUA Forum :: Some Jock almost ruined a nice date, but I came up on top

I didn't want to do anything that night with her, cuz she was more drunk than me. However, her friend kept looking at me with the "I think she really likes you, do you like her?" look on her face. But anyways, 2night we are hanging out with them again to go see a movie.

Ok, so me and my wingman take these 2 girls to drink in a park, lying on a blanket looking up at the stars. And apparently they called some other people to join us. So we are lying there having a good time, and these 3 guys and a girl walk up. So that makes it 3 girls and 5 guys, one of the guys and girls were going out, so they don't really count. But anyways, this one jock type kid is being really buddy, buddy with me, and then grabs the chick I'm with and they walk just a few feet over and start talking, and they talked for like 30 min.
As soon as they came back, I negged her and DHV'd, and AMOG'd the guy a little. He think brings me to the side and says "Listen Man, if you don't mind I'm trying to get with her." What should I have replied back. I just kinda rolled my eyes, studied him and then her as though I was comparing them and said, ok good luck with that man. Like an hour later he leaves with the other people that came with him. So now it's just me, my wingman, and 2 chicks. So we get plastered, walk under an over pass, and watch cars drive by till 2 in the morning. And this chick I was with is probably the hottest frosh at my college (I'm a frosh as well)... so that is major DHV when I was walking around on campus with us with our arms around eachother.
I didn't want to do anything that night with her, cuz she was more drunk than me. However, her friend kept looking at me with the "I think she really likes you, do you like her?" look on her face. But anyways, 2night we are hanging out with them again to go see a movie.

She knows I'm interested and she know's I'm alpha.

On a side note, ya the drunk chick thing, I didn't know the whole code system thing for that. I always thought both of you had to be drunk, I was just a little buzzed. I don't like taking advantage of drunk chicks, it's not my style.

wouldn't you like that rep to be girls saying "damn, he's good."

After hanging out with them lastnight, I know I'm alpha, just the way she was treating me. Because she would seek my approval to talk to her friend. However, I couldn't do anything really cuz that gay friend (He might even be bi... idk) of theirs along with a straight buddy of his kept cock blocking me. I'm pretty sure they are just orbits. And I'm pretty sure that jock guy was an orbit, thinking he had a chance with her.
How do I deal with these orbits?

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wouldn't you like that rep to be girls saying "damn, he's good."

And yea, I've pretty much got that reputation so far. Girls hit on me, and when I sit next to chicks in my classes they are hair touching like crazy. I don't want to shoot myself in the foot by making a move on them and then have an awkward rest of the year after I've had sex with them. So I'm waiting till the end of semester. Oh, and I prolly shoulda mentioned this earlier. I go to a rather small college. I only have about 25-30 students in each of my classes. It's Webster University in Saint Louis.

Ok, so how do I deal with it? I need some constructive criticism. All you seem to be doing is saying what I'm doing wrong. Tell me some things I'm doing right, and how to fix what I'm doing wrong.

Author:	Hassler [ Mon Oct 15, 2007 4:36 pm ]
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Ok, so me and my wingman take these 2 girls to drink in a park, lying on a blanket looking up at the stars. And apparently they called some other people to join us. So we are lying there having a good time, and these 3 guys and a girl walk up. So that makes it 3 girls and 5 guys, one of the guys and girls were going out, so they don't really count. But anyways, this one jock type kid is being really buddy, buddy with me, and then grabs the chick I'm with and they walk just a few feet over and start talking, and they talked for like 30 min. As soon as they came back, I negged her and DHV'd, and AMOG'd the guy a little. He think brings me to the side and says "Listen Man, if you don't mind I'm trying to get with her." What should I have replied back. I just kinda rolled my eyes, studied him and then her as though I was comparing them and said, ok good luck with that man. Like an hour later he leaves with the other people that came with him. So now it's just me, my wingman, and 2 chicks. So we get plastered, walk under an over pass, and watch cars drive by till 2 in the morning. And this chick I was with is probably the hottest frosh at my college (I'm a frosh as well)... so that is major DHV when I was walking around on campus with us with our arms around eachother. I didn't want to do anything that night with her, cuz she was more drunk than me. However, her friend kept looking at me with the "I think she really likes you, do you like her?" look on her face. But anyways, 2night we are hanging out with them again to go see a movie.

Author:	SouthernCross [ Mon Oct 15, 2007 8:34 pm ]
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Quote: I didn't want to do anything that night with her, cuz she was more drunk than me. However, her friend kept looking at me with the "I think she really likes you, do you like her?" look on her face. But anyways, 2night we are hanging out with them again to go see a movie. I quoted that part specifically. You're little moral deal about not wanting to do anything because she was drunk is just a BS excuse. You were dealing in the damage control zone when some guy interrupted u and left with your girl for half an hour. To me that interaction with girl was nothing more than friends hanging out. Regardless if you were going have sex with her or not you should have been kissing her ur letting yourself slip into the nice guy friend category. U claimed to AMOG the dude your mistake was letting him pull u off to the side for anything once you were on a roll. U did it incorrectly There's certian levels of extremity that need to be exhibited when AMOGing and what Jock did to u was Unforgivable he pulled your girl away then said to you "I'm trying to get YOUR GIRL" at this point you dont give him no le-way. That was your time to pull the girl off someplace and talk to her (why not he did to you and didn't care he wanted to fuck your girl he don't a damn about u) it could have been anything to get her away but no u just sat there an let it continue for another 1hr. What u do plan on doing at the movie date building even more comfort so she can see you as even more a nice boy So u came out on top huh....Top of the friends list

Author:	Ubium [ Tue Oct 16, 2007 2:14 am ]
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Based on your post, I can say the chick its not actually his girlfriend and I doubt they both had a relationship enough to where everyone knew they were "dating". So when the jock came he saw them typically as friends which lead him to try and cockblock Hassler he was almost sucessful cause your response of "Good Luck" wouldnt of cut it. Somethings along the lines of "Its all fair game" would of let the amog know whats the deal, even though he can take that as bad and try and fight you depending on his jock personality.

Author:	L.A. Tripp [ Tue Oct 16, 2007 6:55 am ]
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Quote: Ok, so me and my wingman take these 2 girls to drink in a park, lying on a blanket looking up at the stars. And apparently they called some other people to join us. So we are lying there having a good time, and these 3 guys and a girl walk up. So that makes it 3 girls and 5 guys, one of the guys and girls were going out, so they don't really count. But anyways, this one jock type kid is being really buddy, buddy with me, and then grabs the chick I'm with and they walk just a few feet over and start talking, and they talked for like 30 min. As soon as they came back, I negged her and DHV'd, and AMOG'd the guy a little. He think brings me to the side and says "Listen Man, if you don't mind I'm trying to get with her." What should I have replied back. I just kinda rolled my eyes, studied him and then her as though I was comparing them and said, ok good luck with that man. Like an hour later he leaves with the other people that came with him. So now it's just me, my wingman, and 2 chicks. So we get plastered, walk under an over pass, and watch cars drive by till 2 in the morning. And this chick I was with is probably the hottest frosh at my college (I'm a frosh as well)... so that is major DHV when I was walking around on campus with us with our arms around eachother. I didn't want to do anything that night with her, cuz she was more drunk than me. However, her friend kept looking at me with the "I think she really likes you, do you like her?" look on her face. But anyways, 2night we are hanging out with them again to go see a movie. First of all, I completely agree with SoutherCross on his comments. I would have said you completely blew it actually, but he pretty much beat me to it. This guy isolates YOUR girl and you LET him? Damn, talk about DLVing yourself. And SHE stays WITH HIM for 30 mins? Man, your already gone at that point. There's no chance for you there. You could neg and DHV all you want after that, but you're already blown out of the water, so it doesn't matter. You say you AMOGed him, but there's no way you could effectively at that point. Hell, if he was any kind of PUA he would have already progressed kino at least to kissing if not almost fucking in front of you by that time. As far as this other girl being more drunk than you so you don't want to do anything? FUCK THAT! If she's into you, take her! Especially if her friend is trying to signal you to. DUH! No, you're just acting AFC, like Southern said. You're pretty much solid in the LJBF zone by now with all these chicks, except POSSIBLY the drunk one that you turned down. And she will depend on how you handle next time you're with her. So, the way this sounds to me, you blew it with at least two girls this night. Come on man, stand up for yourself.

Author:	Hassler [ Tue Oct 16, 2007 3:50 pm ]
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Ok, lastnight we went to a movie with them, and as soon as I see her she gives me a big 'ol smile, like she missed seeing me or something, and was laughing at all my jokes. Then some other guy they invited walks up an keeps talking to them (I'm pretty sure he's gay, though). But I'm thinking she keeps throwing shit tests at me with all these guys she keeps inviting. She knows I'm interested and she know's I'm alpha. If she gets with some other guy besides me, she's got problems and is DLVing herself in front of her friends. But anyways, after the movie she had to go drop off her friend at another college (A friend of hers, who I think she brought to get her approval), by this time it was like 2 in the morning, and we were all real tired, so I just went to bed. And also, I think all of those guys that keep talking to her, and trying to get with her are in her social circle, so it wouldn't work out with them anyways. As to where, I'm not. I might call her up 2night and be like "It seems that there's more to you, than what meets the eye, I mean beauty is common and everything, but I would like to find out what else there is to you blah blah blah..." and hopfully have her isolated finally. On a side note, ya the drunk chick thing, I didn't know the whole code system thing for that. I always thought both of you had to be drunk, I was just a little buzzed. I don't like taking advantage of drunk chicks, it's not my style.

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Author:	L.A. Tripp [ Tue Oct 16, 2007 4:18 pm ]
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Quote: She knows I'm interested and she know's I'm alpha. NO, you're not alpha. I'm not sugarcoating this . . . quite deluding yourself. Quote: On a side note, ya the drunk chick thing, I didn't know the whole code system thing for that. I always thought both of you had to be drunk, I was just a little buzzed. I don't like taking advantage of drunk chicks, it's not my style. If she wants you, you're not taking advantage of her. If she DOESN'T want you, that's a different story all together. Putting all this bluntly, you're chicken. You're probably a virgin.

Author:	Hassler [ Tue Oct 16, 2007 4:23 pm ]
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I'm not a virgin first of all, I just don't like the idea of taking advantage of drunk chicks. Plus if I would have, it would have been a fools mate. Cuz that was the 1st night I met her. I would have liked to keep her a little longer than just a 1 night stand. Plus it's at my college, and I dont want the reputation of taking advantage of drunk chicks.

Author:	L.A. Tripp [ Tue Oct 16, 2007 4:28 pm ]
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Honestly man, what you're saying runs a lot deeper than just "not taking advantage of drunk chicks". You aren't alpha. You're afraid to step up when an alpha is around. And, as far as you getting a rep around your university . . . wouldn't you like that rep to be girls saying "damn, he's good." The girls drink man. They purposely get drunk to loosen up to hook up. It's the same thing with the girls at the clubs. If you can't take them while they are drunk, you will be waiting a long time to have sex. Look, I'm not saying this to be a dick, but to try to let you know how things work. You're watching other guys do what they want and they are DLVing you like crazy.

Author:	Hassler [ Tue Oct 16, 2007 4:35 pm ]
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After hanging out with them lastnight, I know I'm alpha, just the way she was treating me. Because she would seek my approval to talk to her friend. However, I couldn't do anything really cuz that gay friend (He might even be bi... idk) of theirs along with a straight buddy of his kept cock blocking me. I'm pretty sure they are just orbits. And I'm pretty sure that jock guy was an orbit, thinking he had a chance with her. How do I deal with these orbits?

Author:	Hassler [ Tue Oct 16, 2007 4:39 pm ]
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Quote: wouldn't you like that rep to be girls saying "damn, he's good." And yea, I've pretty much got that reputation so far. Girls hit on me, and when I sit next to chicks in my classes they are hair touching like crazy. I don't want to shoot myself in the foot by making a move on them and then have an awkward rest of the year after I've had sex with them. So I'm waiting till the end of semester. Oh, and I prolly shoulda mentioned this earlier. I go to a rather small college. I only have about 25-30 students in each of my classes. It's Webster University in Saint Louis.

Author:	L.A. Tripp [ Tue Oct 16, 2007 4:41 pm ]
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Quote: After hanging out with them lastnight, I know I'm alpha, just the way she was treating me. Because she would seek my approval to talk to her friend. However, I couldn't do anything really cuz that gay friend (He might even be bi... idk) of theirs along with a straight buddy of his kept cock blocking me. I'm pretty sure they are just orbits. And I'm pretty sure that jock guy was an orbit, thinking he had a chance with her. How do I deal with these orbits? OMG. That is the LEAST alpha thing you could have said. If you're alpha, YOU know you're alpha. You don't need HER to tell you or show you your alpha. If you're alpha, EVERYONE AROUND YOU knows YOUR alpha. There is no doubt with anyone. Trust me. People KNOW I'm alpha. People that are around me everyday have NO DOUBT. GUYS my wife works with KNOW not to mess with her because she's with me, because I'm alpha. My g/f's friends KNOW I'm alpha. If you were REALLY alpha, those "orbits" would have been disarmed IMMEDIATELY by YOU. They wouldn't even be AN ISSUE. Grow up bro. Take a stand for yourself.

Author:	Hassler [ Tue Oct 16, 2007 4:42 pm ]
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Ok, so how do I deal with it? I need some constructive criticism. All you seem to be doing is saying what I'm doing wrong. Tell me some things I'm doing right, and how to fix what I'm doing wrong.

Author:	L.A. Tripp [ Tue Oct 16, 2007 4:43 pm ]
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Quote: Quote: wouldn't you like that rep to be girls saying "damn, he's good." And yea, I've pretty much got that reputation so far. Girls hit on me, and when I sit next to chicks in my classes they are hair touching like crazy. I don't want to shoot myself in the foot by making a move on them and then have an awkward rest of the year after I've had sex with them. So I'm waiting till the end of semester. Oh, and I prolly shoulda mentioned this earlier. I go to a rather small college. I only have about 25-30 students in each of my classes. It's Webster University in Saint Louis. ROTFLMMFAO!!!!!! Let's see . . . "I'm waiting till the end of the semester" . . . . "Yea, I've pretty much got that reputation so far". Who the FUCK do you think you're kidding? Certainly not us.

Author:	L.A. Tripp [ Tue Oct 16, 2007 4:46 pm ]
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Quote: Ok, so how do I deal with it? I need some constructive criticism. All you seem to be doing is saying what I'm doing wrong. Tell me some things I'm doing right, and how to fix what I'm doing wrong. OMG. Are you serious? Are you reading?

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Author:	L.A. Tripp [ Tue Oct 16, 2007 4:47 pm ]
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BTW, apparently you need a better wing too.