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Author:  frekinrican [ Tue Oct 09, 2007 5:53 pm ]
Post subject:  running game on a shy girl? is it possible?

Well I never put this stuff to work. So after my one-tis told me she wants me back I decided to see what girls i could get before I decide. Well theres this very very shy 8.0 who i want so bad cause she's sweet beyond compare which is one thing that drives me nuts aboult certain girls. Idk how to approach this cause sometimes she ignores me. I made a afc mistake by saying how pretty she was. Were both juniors in HS i have 2 classes with her and i can tell she sorta likes me but dont know how to build on it

Author:  Qwex [ Tue Oct 09, 2007 8:39 pm ]
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I would say try to get her to not be shy. One of my best guy friends is called shy all the time, but he never shuts up when around good friends. I was gaming this shy girl and now she doesn't shut up around me. So I say game her as normal. Maybe you can neg her about being shy, but be careful, if she doesn't know she is attractive it could be a problem.

BTW, I am in high school so I know the setting.

Author:  SchneiderMan [ Wed Oct 10, 2007 7:54 am ]
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Build comfort and neg.

Author:  jamin [ Mon Oct 15, 2007 11:03 pm ]
Post subject:  Shes shy

If shes shy, she expects you as a PUA to take initiative, be C/F, but not an ass. This can be a comfort builder.

Because shes shy, she can release subtle IOIs, so keep a look out, but if you are too observent she may take notice and see you as a needy

Author:  Johnny Providence [ Mon Oct 15, 2007 11:27 pm ]
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EVERY GIRL CAN BE GAMED. not every girl is the same, some require different strategies

shy girls do not need to be negged as much. most guys on here say neg neg neg, but with shy insecure girls it is not a good idea. the reason is they often times already hold themselves with such low value they put up ANOTHER shield to protect themselves from assholes.

dont neg, DHV and then when she shows attraction you screen her ass. ask her what she wants to do with her life, blah blah blah. after she shows you why you should like her, compliment her IOI's with your IOI's. then begins the comfort stage where you make her comfortable with you. kino the shit out of her(kino is what separates friends from boyfriends in my opinion).

kino the fuck out of her, if she pulls back or acts like she doesnt like it at all, immediately freeze out and let her come back to you.

shy girls are EASIER than outgoing girls because most guys take their shyness as disinterest. just break through that shit and get yourself a girl who is so shy that you dont have to worry about her cheating.

Author:  Rye [ Tue Oct 16, 2007 12:14 am ]
Post subject:  Re: running game on a shy girl? is it possible?

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Well I never put this stuff to work. So after my one-tis told me she wants me back I decided to see what girls i could get before I decide. Well theres this very very shy 8.0 who i want so bad cause she's sweet beyond compare which is one thing that drives me nuts aboult certain girls. Idk how to approach this cause sometimes she ignores me. I made a afc mistake by saying how pretty she was. Were both juniors in HS i have 2 classes with her and i can tell she sorta likes me but dont know how to build on it
She is an HB8 so do not use any hardcore negs. You can do light negs though, just stupid, obvious little things that make her laugh. don't do anything serious, just obvious "i am playful" negs. She gets an answer wrong in class, while sitting next to her nudge her and whisper "good job" with a smile. If you aren't sittng near her, tryto sit so you are across from her, or in her line of vision. Make EC (eye contact) and when she notices that you are giving her attention, just do a little smile. Not just with your mouth, but with your eyes. Open em up, smile, show some teeth. She will lookaway first but u gotta establish that "I am man. I will not hurt you." kind of role. Do this for a little while.

Approaching- ask her what homework was later that day. Bring up on how that assignment was stupid or fun. Get her opinion on the class. She will open up if you open up to her and show her you aren't as intimidating as you seem. Do some screening once you built that comfort. "what do you want to be when you grow up?" is a good one. Beware, only pull this off when you are on a talking basis with her. That was a bad AFC move talkin about her looks. But it is not as bad because she is an 8, not a 10. If it were a 10 you said that to, you chances would have been burned in a second. Just work on EC for a week or so, and little side convos, work into it. Do not just approach her and start talking, this isn't the movies kid. Yougotta build up to it. Take your time, go slow, ya know?

Talk to her friends too. make her jealous. Prove to her friends that you are cool and social and your chances will drastically increase. Hope this helps. -Rye

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