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| Author: | Teknine [ Fri Mar 11, 2011 5:21 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Post-first date communications - how'd i screw up? |
What up guys. I just want to understand where I might have fucked this up so I might improve next time. I met a bunch of girls from online and brute force approaching because I was/am trying to get over some oneitis. This is one such story from that. I think my apathy from the oneitis is showing in my game, but still want to know how I fucked this up. -Meet girl for date 1; date goes well; she wants to extend it; she pays for most everything; however, Epic Fail on the kiss close as I didn't see the opening for it and was a little too drunk, so we hugged and agreed we'd be in touch -Texted her 2 days later, said we should meet again; instant text back w/smilies, etc from her that we should; I didn't set anything up at that point cuz i thought it would be needy and it was the start of the weekend. said i'd call her soon -Called her the next monday; voicemail; left short message, nothing funny, just 'hey it's Tek. call me back' -2 days later, she texts me 'hey thanks for your mssg. my week sucks. how are you?' -I respond 3 hrs later: 'just got back into town from business trip; how are things' radio silence. i realize i should have upped the playfulness in the texts and hammered out a concrete meet date. where to from here given no response? my first thought is wait till next week and tell her to meet me for drinks/dinner somewhere. |
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| Author: | hawksterG [ Fri Mar 11, 2011 8:19 pm ] |
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Shes probably busy. It happens. If not, just text her saying something reminded you of her. Be funny. You can in the same text, set up a followup. Alien line seems to always work. "Hey, i don't think i will ever see you again. I just found out aliens are coming to abduct all the good looking ass people. You will be safe... i'm just texting to say goodbye. If and when she responds. Text back "Oh wait, i heard they're stopping to get some gas, I might have some time to spare. Haha, when are you free?" |
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| Author: | Teknine [ Fri Mar 11, 2011 9:34 pm ] |
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safe, bud. thanks for the insights. Alien line is pretty creative - I like that. big ups. so it seems that in this case I can basically just reset and text her. was acting as if ball was in her court, but sounds like doesn't matter here. |
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| Author: | Bromelo [ Mon Mar 14, 2011 1:27 pm ] |
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Hey bit of a Newb here but, I do think the mistake you made is her view of you changed. Assuming you used decent game to get her ( u must have at least gotten attraction), your failure to kiss her and inability to contact her ( or when doing so being very terse) drove her to conclude you where either too scared to make a move ( major DLV). In the future, either make a move or if you fail hammer down a solid day 2 and qualify with a joke like "I don't make out on the first date, god how easy are you?" Good luck man and I made the same mistake a few weeks ago. |
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| Author: | Teknine [ Mon Mar 14, 2011 2:47 pm ] |
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Bromelo - dude I think you are right about her view of me changing. Basically, my personality did a 180 from in person vs. text and it fucked things up. Partly because I broke things off w/stupid oneitis girl while all this texting with this girl was happening, so i was terse/aloof/apathetic. At this point I will do an experiment to see if I can revive this. |
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