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| Author: | Spike007 [ Mon Feb 21, 2011 12:11 am ] |
| Post subject: | Go shopping for a first "date"? |
Ok so I want to know if go shopping with a girl on a first date is a good idea. I thought it can be a good idea because first of all, I need a new shirt and if there is a women with me she can tell me if it looks good or not. I think it can be a good idea because there is so many shops and funny stores that it can be fun. The thing is I don't really know the girl so I don't want to do something that doesn't involve talking. I want to talk to her to get to know what she likes ect. IF it's a bad idea, what would you do in my situation? EDIT : We are going out to a club thursday and I thought I should invite her to a date just before we go out. Also how many days I should ask her before the date? |
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| Author: | Herr Flick [ Mon Feb 21, 2011 12:38 am ] |
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How long? Depends on how comfortable you where on the Day1. The less attraction, the more time you need her to think about you, so you can remind her when you run a little text/phone-game on her. Shopping on the Day2 is possible, but make sure she is NOT deciding what you must wear. In the end you decide what to buy. Ofcourse you show her that you appreciate her advice, but play it so it seems you made the decision. It also offers opportunities to make her qualify herself to you. 'Does this look good on me? What colour should I try on?' etc etc... Talking is involved when shopping at the mall. Take the time to also sit down and have some coffee or something like that. That also gives extra opportunities to run some game on her! It's not my personal favourite for a Day2, but it is possible. Good luck! |
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| Author: | Spike007 [ Mon Feb 21, 2011 12:56 am ] |
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Thank you for your post. We are confortable with each other. At first I was playing her like a boss but now I think because I don't really initiate txt and talk she thinks I don't care about her. So if I want to go shop with her thursday and I invite her tomorrow, it's a good timing? |
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| Author: | Herr Flick [ Mon Feb 21, 2011 1:31 am ] |
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It seems you need to balance pushing/pulling some more. No worries, you'll get there. Just make the invitation so that you convey that you're the prize. Thursday will also be convenient for you (you needed some stuff anyway) and bring it so that you think she's cool enough to hang out with you. This way she will still qualify to you, yet you communicate that you appreciate her company.. ^^ In other words, go for it... (why would you not?  )Be confident! |
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