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| Author: | NeedsMoreFlow [ Thu Jan 20, 2011 8:31 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Need help on my next move... |
I've been talking with this one girl for the past few weeks. We've hung out a few times within the first week of meeting. Over the second week she was busy and we didn't see each other because she was busy and didn't response to the 2 texts/calls I sent within the week. She texted me on Monday saying that she's sorry she didn't get back to me because she was busy/out of town but nothing about going out again. I responded with one last message saying it's all good and haven't got a response yet. I haven't contacted her since then (it's been 3 days) and I need some advice on what to do next to get her out with me again. I was thinking about waiting until Sunday and sending her a quick "What's going on" text and see where it goes from there. PS: I'm aware of the possibility that she might have lost interest but I want to at least try to see where this goes. |
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| Author: | NinjaP [ Thu Jan 20, 2011 10:02 pm ] |
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There are lots of different type of women, and all of them needs different kind og approach. What type of women is she? you dont give any background, which makes it hard to figure out the best way to help you man.. If u have had some attraction for each other, then i see no wrong in sending a sweet text or just call her up. Fuck all those games  Good luck to you bro |
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| Author: | the_prize [ Thu Jan 20, 2011 10:42 pm ] |
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Agreed, you do need to be able to tell what kind of girl she is. She may not be interested. She may be a girl that you need to show some interest in, and make an effort. You should have some sort of idea already. Best of luck. |
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| Author: | NeedsMoreFlow [ Thu Jan 20, 2011 11:21 pm ] |
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Thanks for the replies. You guys helped me realize that there's no reason for waiting for that long. If there is any attraction or interest on her part then she will reply to a simple "What's up" text, otherwise it's time to move on. |
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| Author: | NeedsMoreFlow [ Fri Jan 21, 2011 1:13 am ] |
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Got a response... Me: How's everything with you? Her: Good busy as shit at work tonight Me: Lol you have fun with that  I think I might've fucked something up there..... |
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| Author: | the_prize [ Fri Jan 21, 2011 1:43 am ] |
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You gotta stop looking at them as 'fuck up's' They are txt msgs so you have all the time in the world to think of a reply. saying 'have fun with that ' sounds like a conversation ender. unless your asking questions for times to meet etc dont use any ? simply tease a bit but dont seem like your looking for a response, say somthing that will want them to react. and dont look like your ending the convo. because then your back at sqaure 1. if they look like they are ending the convo, just dont reply that day, reply another day but not to that msg.you can txt for weeks on end if its just one or two a day, and they are smart ass like. helps when you or they are out of town and meeting in person is not possible. |
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| Author: | NeedsMoreFlow [ Fri Jan 21, 2011 1:58 am ] |
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So what would be something I could say to get her to start talking and eventually lead to making plans in a way where I don't come off as clingy or needy? (I'm horrible with openers and conversation starters) |
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| Author: | the_prize [ Fri Jan 21, 2011 2:12 am ] |
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Its hard to say because i dont know the girl, and i have no idea about any inside jokes or what other topics you have talked on. Now is a time to start being creative, its not exactly what you say! but how you are coming across. |
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| Author: | NinjaP [ Fri Jan 21, 2011 6:37 am ] |
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i agree with with the prize.. That last text message seemed like an conversation ender, i wouldnt text a girl back on that either. She was busy at work, why i wouldnt either have asked her a question. Usually when i get a text like that, i answer back with a statement, some kind of indirect question, which she is not obliged to reply. But dude.. Youre totally overanalyzing these text message, it seems like she got you en check. Start talking to other women too. But i dont see any harm in initiating another text soon. But keep them fun and playfully. And again.. tell us some background about her? |
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| Author: | bvanevery [ Sat Jan 22, 2011 8:35 am ] |
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Why didn't you command her to meet you at such-and-such place after her busy day of work? Not ask, command. If she says no, too busy or tired, then you say we'll do it another day then. Do you wanna keep uselessly texting this gal forever? Order something to happen. If she doesn't take orders then you don't contact her for awhile. Better than beating around the bush, getting nowhere, then not contacting her for awhile. |
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