I apologize for continuously giving updates in new posts but I think what I did here was solid game and would like to get some analysis and could be a positive example for someone who gets friend zoned.
To give some more background when the following happened I did not even know what PUA was. We met through friends, had 1 double date, great convo hardly any kino. Then went on a one on one date very little kino again but great chemistry. Instantly, I had a feeling I was in the friend zone. I asked her out again too soon, paid for everything, drove, too chit chatty etc. I was wayyyy too available and appeared way too desperate. AFC all day long
So a week later she texted me asking to set up a date for the two of us and our mutual friends. I'm like no I can't appear too available and I had plans so I was like nope sounds fun but prior engagements.
Froze her out for like another 2 weeks then we had our political debate on facebook publicly on her wall. I know politics shouldn't come up if your trying to close but I needed to get my respect back. Not only did this say "I don't care if you're not attracted to me" but said "I don't even care if you agree or even like me. I am who I am." I put her in her place to the point where her last response was ouch. I put back "Drinks anytime soon???" Surprisly her response.. just say when
Proof girls hate to be constantly agreed with and a man who stands for something is attractive!
So to add on to what happened yesterday I grew a pair and said place XYZ has reggae night . I know you'll have a blast... sure enough she was excited about my suggestion and responded Yes! Where is that?
Now here is where I think I may have faltered but made a solid recovery. She asked me where it was, I told her then I told her I would pick her up. (In my case I need to make it clear I'm detached from the outcome) offering to pick her up makes it at least APPEAR that I am really excited about the date and putting her on a pedestal.
Here's what I did: I texted "wait considering we're both womans rights activists you're picking me up right?"
She responded later that night like haha whatttt but I want to drink. Then she said I dont care. if you prefer it I will pick u up
I didn't respond back, she went to sleep thinking that she was picking me up!
This morning I texted her back "LOL! I'm driving just had to throw some feminism into the mix. I will pick you up at time X"
her response, "haha you are great its not easy to read sarcasm through texts
"I'm the man I drive but it's almost like I gave her a shit test. I needed to show her that I'm not actually afraid to go there. I'm not one of your pals and you are not the only person with value here. I made her think a little
By the date tomorrow she knows that I have balls and am a good time. I at least feel like I gained respect making me more attractive so it's critical I escalate kino and go after what I want at least a K-close.
