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| Author: | GoodBetterBest [ Sat Jan 15, 2011 11:25 am ] |
| Post subject: | How should I go about this |
hey guys, sorry but this is a long one. So i recently met this girl who is good friends with my bestfriend's girlfriend, shes a very quiet shy type of girl but is cute as hell and we like alot of the same things and talk about pretty much anything. Recently I added her to facebook, we've been messaging eachother with at least one or two messages a day on fb, sometimes its playful/flirty sometimes its just about anything but it never feels awkward. I told her we should hangout sometime the other day, she said she'd like that and to tell her when im free so i did, gave her my number, she text me the next day with an inside joke we have goin and said she wants to hangout on my free day, which was today/last night. We met up for coffee, hung out at the mall for a bit, we joked around and flirted, I made sure to touch and tap her lightly early on to get her used to me doing so, also talking really up close to her and she never pulled away or seemed unreceptive. We eventually ended up going to my buddies place and we all hungout, everything went good, then later into the evening we got alot closer to eachother, sitting right beside eachother on the couch (which is a big couch), she'd hit or throw things at me if i busted her balls, laugh at any joke i made (shitty or not), my friend and his girl ended up goin to sleep and they left us alone watchin a shitty movie (little man lol). I felt pretty confident that if i went to kiss her (was thinking of using the DD kiss test) she would probably not reject, but i wasnt 100% (and yes i know if you never try you will never know) so i pussied out and didnt make any final moves (and there were many times i could have possibly done so), still had a good time though, when i dropped her off home we didnt hug or anything like that but everything ended on a good note, she said she'd call me sometime without me even saying anything hinting towards that or asking her if she would (cause i know never to ask that) then we said our goodbyes. Heres where i need some advice. I like this girl alot, but to be honest even if we didnt hook up it wouldnt really matter because she is really pleasent and I wouldnt even mind having her in my friends zone. Im sure she likes me too (the same way i like her), but with her being as shy as she is, i know Im gonna have to make the first move (which us guys usually have to do 95% of the time). Im going to ask her out again but id really apprieciate any pointers you guys can give me on what to do when were out alone again, because i know she will say yes to hanging out again. Any critism is apprieciated as well. thanks for reading my long ass topic lol. |
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| Author: | cannonfist [ Fri Jan 21, 2011 9:47 am ] |
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You sound like you've done all the groundwork. Best thing to do is just man up and go for it. If you get on well anyway, there's no reason you can't just play it cool and brush it off if she rejects a kiss. If she's shy, she's probably WANTING you to make a move on her. If you're unconfident or unsure, hang with her a few more times, but don't leave it too long before escalating!! When you're with her, ramp up the sexual tension. Lots of kino, eye contact, demonstrate that you're confident and in complete control of the situation. If you're unsure of yourself or her response, you're not in the right frame of mind. Build your confidence up dude. |
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| Author: | puam [ Mon Jan 24, 2011 7:04 pm ] |
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yeah. man up |
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