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| Author: | Cue_23 [ Fri Jan 14, 2011 3:17 pm ] |
| Post subject: | The Dreaded Friend Zone |
Firstly, i would like to make clear that i am far from AFC, perhaps not a PUA, but not an AFC, however i have recently met a girl that has become my enigma, and when it comes to closing i am battling. I have been talking to her for a few months on and off, reason being is she has turned me down twice beforehand, for reasons of having a boyfriend. I was talking to her recently, for her to tell me she had just broke up with him, i waited 4-5 days then i asked her to coffee, which she said yes. During coffee it all went well, we talked for about three hours, however to avoid the friend zoning, i established a bit of day-time kino with a palm reading, secret handshake and a half-assed attempt at a Ross Jeffries move. Now she let me do all these things, and i encountered no IODs, she even bought a pack of cards from the shops to show me card tricks because i said she had to teach me something, but this was sort of organised before hand. But for some reason i am still not sure whether i have successfully got her attracted to me, or whether she thinks it is a friendly thing, because of me talking to her for so long when she had a boyfriend. I have already organised a second meeting, we are bowling (reference to a time she turned me down). I fear i am contracting the oneitis with this girl, however am content with it, my question is this though. I need a routine/DHV, public and daytime appropriate to really guage if she is on the same page as me. Any assistance would be greatly appreciated, for i am in dire need. Cue |
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| Author: | TheJ [ Fri Jan 14, 2011 3:40 pm ] |
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You re not in dire need. Just ramp up the sexual talk/tension. Kino to the max and push. If she's not cool with this you'll know then. You'll loose a lot more interest by not moving then by moving too much if there was interest (sexual that is) to start with. If there was none then you'll know and you can move on. She wants you to be a god damn man. Be one. |
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| Author: | Cue_23 [ Sat Jan 15, 2011 2:17 am ] |
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That actually helped me a whole lot, thank you. Kind of put the obviousness of the situation in front of me, if she likes me, she will go with it, but if she doesn't she won't and i can accept that earlier rather than later. Wise words. |
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| Author: | bvanevery [ Sat Jan 22, 2011 8:40 am ] |
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Quote: She wants you to be a god damn man. Be one.
Yeah, that was my reaction. What's to "gauge?" Complete waste of time. "Gauging" in this case is you waffling in your nervousness. Be direct and do what you're supposed to do. Take her.
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