PUA Forum :: Where to go from here..........

Question #1:When she mentions an ex-,it doesnt mean it's game over for you.

It can mean she's trying to impress you or DHV herself by bringing up an ex-.

Pay no mind to it.

#2:Same thing as for guy friends.Pay it no mind.Women do this all the time as if to say,"Im a cool girl to be around and guys love my compny".

So view it as she trying to impress you again.

#3:You never want the girl to be taking more than you.

After all,you're the one trying to seduce her so you should be doing most of the talking.

True,it is an IOI that she's talking.

But it does not make her attracted to you since she's doing all the talking.

Lastly,why wait until weekend to try lay this girl?

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I agree with most of your statements, except the one that you should be talking more than the girl. No, doesnt matter.. Just take controle of the topics.

@NinjaP & The J-Correct guys;I agree.

But I still prefer that the guy does most of the talking.

If you're skilled,then you can relax more and let her blab off,knowing that you can say to her,"Shut up;you're talking too much,come here",and kiss her.

The average guy cannot pull off such a dominant move,so best that he talks more or ramp up the KINO while she talks.

Met this girl at the dining hall in Univeristy a few days ago...She asked for MY number (good sign) so I gave it to her....The NEXT day (late afternoonish) I just shoot her a text and set up another lunch date for today which we had, and it went well. I asked her during lunch what she was doing this weekend and she said she's going back home, but she'll shoot me a text message when she's back. (Honestly she seemed a little upset that she was going back home)

It seems like everything is going well, but i'm just looking for some suggestions or things I can do to really guarantee a seal deal....I have a few questions though....

1. Does it necessarily mean anything when she mentions an ex-boyfriend?
2. What does it mean when she mentions "guy friends" that she has...She brought them up twice, seems like they are just guys she hangs out w/ but I'm not so sure....
3. She is a TALKER...She probably did the majority of the talking and asking questions, is that more a good thing though (cause she's interested?)

Thanks a lot....

Author:	FuturePUA2010 [ Thu Jan 13, 2011 8:29 am ]
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Met this girl at the dining hall in Univeristy a few days ago...She asked for MY number (good sign) so I gave it to her....The NEXT day (late afternoonish) I just shoot her a text and set up another lunch date for today which we had, and it went well. I asked her during lunch what she was doing this weekend and she said she's going back home, but she'll shoot me a text message when she's back. (Honestly she seemed a little upset that she was going back home) It seems like everything is going well, but i'm just looking for some suggestions or things I can do to really guarantee a seal deal....I have a few questions though.... 1. Does it necessarily mean anything when she mentions an ex-boyfriend? 2. What does it mean when she mentions "guy friends" that she has...She brought them up twice, seems like they are just guys she hangs out w/ but I'm not so sure.... 3. She is a TALKER...She probably did the majority of the talking and asking questions, is that more a good thing though (cause she's interested?) Thanks a lot....

Author:	PUA Kenny [ Thu Jan 13, 2011 12:02 pm ]
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Question #1:When she mentions an ex-,it doesnt mean it's game over for you. It can mean she's trying to impress you or DHV herself by bringing up an ex-. Pay no mind to it. #2:Same thing as for guy friends.Pay it no mind.Women do this all the time as if to say,"Im a cool girl to be around and guys love my compny". So view it as she trying to impress you again. #3:You never want the girl to be taking more than you. After all,you're the one trying to seduce her so you should be doing most of the talking. True,it is an IOI that she's talking. But it does not make her attracted to you since she's doing all the talking. Lastly,why wait until weekend to try lay this girl?

Author:	NinjaP [ Thu Jan 13, 2011 2:49 pm ]
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Quote: Question #1:When she mentions an ex-,it doesnt mean it's game over for you. It can mean she's trying to impress you or DHV herself by bringing up an ex-. Pay no mind to it. #2:Same thing as for guy friends.Pay it no mind.Women do this all the time as if to say,"Im a cool girl to be around and guys love my compny". So view it as she trying to impress you again. #3:You never want the girl to be taking more than you. After all,you're the one trying to seduce her so you should be doing most of the talking. True,it is an IOI that she's talking. But it does not make her attracted to you since she's doing all the talking. Lastly,why wait until weekend to try lay this girl? I agree with most of your statements, except the one that you should be talking more than the girl. No, doesnt matter.. Just take controle of the topics.

Author:	TheJ [ Thu Jan 13, 2011 2:53 pm ]
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Quote: Quote: Question #1:When she mentions an ex-,it doesnt mean it's game over for you. It can mean she's trying to impress you or DHV herself by bringing up an ex-. Pay no mind to it. #2:Same thing as for guy friends.Pay it no mind.Women do this all the time as if to say,"Im a cool girl to be around and guys love my compny". So view it as she trying to impress you again. #3:You never want the girl to be taking more than you. After all,you're the one trying to seduce her so you should be doing most of the talking. True,it is an IOI that she's talking. But it does not make her attracted to you since she's doing all the talking. Lastly,why wait until weekend to try lay this girl? I agree with most of your statements, except the one that you should be talking more than the girl. No, doesnt matter.. Just take controle of the topics. Yup. Doesn't matter who talks. Heck Ross Jefferies would say that you need to listen more then talk. After 2 dates though, you better start to do some sexual tension and soon.

Author:	PUA Kenny [ Thu Jan 13, 2011 3:13 pm ]
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@NinjaP & The J-Correct guys;I agree. But I still prefer that the guy does most of the talking. If you're skilled,then you can relax more and let her blab off,knowing that you can say to her,"Shut up;you're talking too much,come here",and kiss her. The average guy cannot pull off such a dominant move,so best that he talks more or ramp up the KINO while she talks.

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Author:	TheJ [ Thu Jan 13, 2011 6:37 pm ]
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Quote: @NinjaP & The J-Correct guys;I agree. But I still prefer that the guy does most of the talking. If you're skilled,then you can relax more and let her blab off,knowing that you can say to her,"Shut up;you're talking too much,come here",and kiss her. The average guy cannot pull off such a dominant move,so best that he talks more or ramp up the KINO while she talks. Not everything works for everyone, you are right at that. Letting her blab off is not necessarly how I would put it though. You shoudn't just nob your head like a happy puppy if she's talking to you about purses and the new dress her bets friend just bought or whatnot. If it doesn't interest you, change topic. That's your job. You should still remain dominant. However if she is opening up to you or talking about interesting things listening might be the best thing to do. You build confort and she gets more and more involved as she talks about herself. More involvement = good. And being attentive to what she tells you will give you loads of topics to brench off to keep convo flowing. Talking too much may come off as your are trying to show off or you are trying to impress her. So be carefull there as well.

Author:	PUA Kenny [ Thu Jan 13, 2011 7:43 pm ]
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@TheJ-Agreed 100%. Especially on the point of not lettin her blab on topics which arent conducive to the seduction. So the guy should set the topic and let her chat. I agree with your post 100%.

Author:	FuturePUA2010 [ Fri Jan 14, 2011 3:17 am ]
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I'm thinking about just taking her on a cruise on Monday when she gets back where I'll escalade everything. Any fun little stupid games we can play in the car (keeping in mind that i'm driving) or just easy ways to get to touching her...?? Also, given that she is talking to much during the car ride, is it best to go for a quick kiss or should i wait until i drop her off to make a move?

Author:	dudektria [ Fri Jan 14, 2011 10:43 am ]
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Man, go for it! haha She's probably strong and she's trying to impress you, which is a good sign Até, Felipe.

Author:	Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Fri Jan 14, 2011 1:19 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Where to go from here..........
Quote: Met this girl at the dining hall in Univeristy a few days ago...She asked for MY number (good sign) so I gave it to her....The NEXT day (late afternoonish) I just shoot her a text and set up another lunch date for today which we had, and it went well. I asked her during lunch what she was doing this weekend and she said she's going back home, but she'll shoot me a text message when she's back. (Honestly she seemed a little upset that she was going back home) It seems like everything is going well, but i'm just looking for some suggestions or things I can do to really guarantee a seal deal....I have a few questions though.... 1. Does it necessarily mean anything when she mentions an ex-boyfriend? 2. What does it mean when she mentions "guy friends" that she has...She brought them up twice, seems like they are just guys she hangs out w/ but I'm not so sure.... 3. She is a TALKER...She probably did the majority of the talking and asking questions, is that more a good thing though (cause she's interested?) Thanks a lot.... She's grooming you for addition to her collection of orbiters and hangers on who comment on how great she is on her new facebook photo and take her out to nice dinners and NEVER GET LAID. Don't be that guy. Tell her you think she's fucking sexy Flirt, tease, banter, use sexual innuendo, talk about sex Don't take any of her shit Don't listen to a word about her ex bf or any of her problems SEXUALLY ESCALATE Be a DOMINANT LEADER - tell her where the fuck you guys are going, at what time, and what to wear for you.

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