Ok guys,
Ill try and keep this short, but i love details to much sorry !!!
. Went on a 5 daytrip too Barcelona on new yearseve.
I am new at PUA and considered this trip to be a good way to get over my AproachA.
I had my state off mind right, and am pleased with my made progress.
But my travelmate hates this PUA-stuff and told me do it whenever you want but no gaming on bartenders or hotelpersonel or whatever i dont want to get kicked out anywhere.
SO my problem-woman: The HOTELRECEPTIONIST, hot, natural, high energy, bold, open.
Anyway being in this trainingvibe i was cocky to her aswell. complaining she made me wait too long, telling her she wasn't friendly like most woman etc. She liked it so did i. There was little conversation since she mostly was working but i had her attention.
Anyway, when she left on the last night i was smoking at the exit, we had a short non work related chat. I asked her where i could give her a review. She was clearly intrigued.
I used Mysterys travelbag-attraction-story on a letter. Telling her she was like me and i thought that was cool and attractive + explaining my friends no-game rule.
Instantly i got a mail, that she loved my letter, knew i would leave a message and that she had even been wondering about it. She was extremely straightforward.
I had burning thoughts off you,
im highly sexual,
hope you will be back in BCN soon.
I tried to game her in my next email but failed. she saw right true it and said again. I want you here to find out where this vibe we have leads. Besides that i dont believe in fairytales.
then a boring chat,playing hard to get and verry distant.
She hates the fakeness off the net. Cant blame her.
yet next morning a simple email:
i dreamt about you licking me in my neck ! dont respond please.
I did respond telling her not to waste my time playing games with me, it wouldn't work and was offensive.
So then we have a normal chat. Same story AGAIN
I was/am really attracted to you, im highly sexual and i dont wont any online bullshit. Come over and we will find out.
Now i know i cant go over !!!!
even iff i love the idea off taking that risk and having an Barcelona fuck buddy.
The woman on herself is allot like me but its def not a case off one-itis.
Yet i love the abroad fuckbuddy idea allot, it fits my way off life.
HOW DO I REFRAME ???????????????????....
how do i get her to win me over into comming. So that i can.
I understand iff i go now ill be the AFC to her no mahter what.
Ill be the desperate guy flying over because he thinks he will get laid.
HOW DO I MAKE HER WORK FOR IT, like really hard !
