I agree with the idea that women have a choice. But it is the man who makes that choice more enticing for her. On the one hand, not causing the mess up is good because you will not need to fix an error which can be fatal. But on the other hand, a man needs to constantly give the girl a reason to want him over other guys. If you choose to be that guy who is simply not going to mess up, you will lose to the more advanced guys who will not mess up and continueously intrigue, entice, and seduce the girl. I understand the value of not messing up, but there is so much value in being pro-active for what you want.
Sometimes it is just a matter of showing the girl that you deserve to be with her (whether just for sex or a relationship). So, i say that the girl clearly has a choice, but it is the man's duty (like Illustration did in his story) to go for what he wants and show her that he is what she wants. She may want it already, but why not give her incentives so that she yearns for it.
I compare this to buying food. Have you ever wanted to buy a pizza? Then you go in the restaurant and notice a picture or someone else eating something that looks so damn delectable that you want it also. That is the way that being pro-active works, be that voluptuous meal that she NEEDS, not only the one that she thinks she wants. . .
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