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Author:  Matahashi [ Sun Dec 05, 2010 6:04 pm ]
Post subject:  debatable situation for 2nd date
K so this isnt a literal date but I've got a friend a went to a party w yesterday who i really like and it was the typical everyones drunk yadda yadda and she was all over me kissing on me and cuddling, I didnt drink much so my mind was running through the options of what i should do when she's sober in the morning. well morning came and we were still all cuddley and i got a nice kiss before I left, but now tonight we're going bowling with a bunch of the people from the party and i cant decide if i want to step it up a little or play it off like nothing happend. advice or suggestions :?:
Author:  HighTide [ Sun Dec 05, 2010 7:31 pm ]
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if you're asking you already know the answer.

Step it up-
1. she kissed you last night when she was drunk
2. she kissed you in the morning when she fully realized what was goin on

go for it, and dont hesitate or I WILL FIND YOU. :twisted:

GOOD LUCK :D
Author:  Matahashi [ Sun Dec 05, 2010 9:39 pm ]
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thanks man. just needed some reassurance.

edit: how far should i take it tho? just a kiss here and there or more?
Author:  HighTide [ Sun Dec 05, 2010 10:37 pm ]
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always put for more, but dont push to hard or youre going to ruin things.

1. dont "tell her how you feel verbally"; show her but not in the pushover kind of way
2. if you get as far as sex dont make it seem like its a gifts shes giving you, sex is supposed to be mutual you giving something to her and you getting something from her. to much on either end isnt healthy
3. assuming you already have her number because you guys are friends DO NOT and i repeat DO NOT start texting her everyday like shes your girlfriend

these are all roads that ive been down, hard to recover from; but keep me posted i wanna see how this plays out
Author:  Matahashi [ Sun Dec 05, 2010 10:47 pm ]
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ok well i know it wont get as far as sex, i wont let it this soon, as for the texting though. she texts me almost everyday to at least say hi and see how im doing, usually a goodmorning or something. I dont mind it at all obviously but should i take advantage of it?
Author:  Matahashi [ Mon Dec 06, 2010 8:37 pm ]
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The night went pretty good, not much happend tho because one of her friends from work was there, but thats ok. we ended up crashing at our frends house and cuddled on the couch for a while but thats about all that ended up happening, when i woke up the next morning she already left for work.
Author:  HighTide [ Tue Dec 07, 2010 12:11 am ]
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shes making all the moves here meaning you have all the power. You have soooooo many options from here, day2 is a good start. Get her out where its just you and her without friends around and enjoy yourselves; eachother whatever you want to call it JUST DO IT lol
Author:  Matahashi [ Tue Dec 07, 2010 4:34 am ]
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already done :) im going over to her house on wednesday for the night.
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