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| Author: | Slick Prince [ Mon Nov 01, 2010 12:40 am ] |
| Post subject: | what do you do if a girl said "i dont give out my numbe |
Really good at approaching and opening and getting everything flowing, i play games and get good response but sometimes i get girls that wants me to work hard for their number by saying "i dont give out my number" whenever i try to close, really sucks and even though it doesnt happen all the time, i wanna know how to go by it... Anyone with good suggestions or method on how to deal with this? |
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| Author: | Ezo [ Mon Nov 01, 2010 1:00 am ] |
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There is only one reason for this. You failed before. I mean your game was flawed, you tried to close before you got enough comfort and attraction. Focus more on comfort and see how that goes. |
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| Author: | AceofSpades07 [ Mon Nov 01, 2010 1:11 am ] |
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Try this out and see if it works. Dont ask for her number.. I started using this and my number close percentage went way up. "So you seem pretty intersting, whats the best way of keeping in touch?" If your game went well she should offer her number, or at least an email. If she offers you an email turn it into a number close. Saying it this way is much harder to turn down. See how it works for you |
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| Author: | Slick Prince [ Mon Nov 01, 2010 1:40 am ] |
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yo Acesofspades07 thanks man..that line "So you seem pretty intersting, whats the best way of keeping in touch?" has actually worked for me before, guess i got too comfprtable and just decided not to stick to the routine no more. And Ezo your definitely right, looking back on the times when i got that i dont give my number out reply was because i kinda rushed the convo cos i felt like i was running out of shit to say and i obviously didnt build enough comfort and attraction by just trying to number close in order to avoid any awkward silence. Thanks a lot guys |
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| Author: | Jagermaster [ Sun Nov 28, 2010 9:38 pm ] |
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I agree with everything above... A quick response to help get you out of it could have been "Thats cool cause i never ask" and then put your phone in her hand You'd be conveying a few things: 1. You have high value and really do rarely ask for numbers ..i.e. she is special 2. Subconsciously, you will be saying you never ask, so you still aren't, you are simply letting her know she will be giving it..in a way not giving her an option! 3. By handing her your phone, social convention will mean she is a lot more likely to enter her number..its a lot harder for her to say no when holding your phone.. |
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| Author: | Mr_Amazing [ Mon Nov 29, 2010 8:52 am ] |
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"i don`t give out my number" is just a polite way of saying "i don`t wanna give you my number". personally, i give the girl my number or suggest we exchange numbers. |
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