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| Author: | Gerka [ Tue Oct 05, 2010 10:38 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Critique my email please! |
Alright guys quick background - Known this HB10 for about 5 years. I blew an easy opening in the beginning, had it completely locked but I had no confidence back then. Shit happens. Few years passed and we were friends but about a year ago we went on a few dates and I k-closed every time. Things happened and she got back with the guy she was seeing, as she was still dating him while seeing me. Just recently she broke up with the guy and we have been on 3 or 4 dates but everytime I try to k-close I get shot down. She hits me with the I dated him for 3 years and it's a really hard time right now etc etc. I'm at wit's end and I need to do something soon. She is a serious catch and won't be on the market long. Oh and for the record i know i have serious one-itis. Anyway I was gonna send her this email as I'm not really good at pontificating and it's too long for a text and just wanted to know if you guys thought it was Super AFC or if it was ok. Also if you guys could offer me advice on course of action next time we go out which will probably be next week. Should I give an ultimatum, push harder or what? I don't know what to do hear. Any help would be awesome. Here's the email: "Hey, I was just sitting at work and I was thinking about some stuff. I got to thinking about you and what you’ve been going through lately. I had some thoughts I want to share with you. I know you’re going through some hard times and it’s natural that you’re not gonna be all smiles all the time, but I feel like your depression is excessive. You gotta start doing some thinking and come to the root cause of this all. I’ll tell you what I think and I’ve earned the right to say this after 5 years – and don’t shrug it off like I know you do…you’re obsessed with this notion of happiness and perfect bliss, and I hate to burst the bubble but the way you’re seeking it isn’t ever going to get you there. I look at all the outlets you look to for happiness and it just doesn’t make sense to me. You’re miserable about Jake – the guy was no good, who none of your friends liked – you should have taken that hint right from the get go. But whatever, you live and you learn. Such is life. But you can’t get hung up on this shit and let it hold you back. Are you gonna sit around for the rest of your life and waste it thinking about it. I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, and believe me – He’s moved on and you should too. I don’t mean to be harsh I’m just calling it like it is. I heard an interesting quote the other day that made me think about you; “Beautiful women are invisible…we never actually see the person. We see the beautiful shell. We are blocked by the beauty barrier….We are so dazzled by the outside that we never make it inside.” I think this really sings to your situations a lot. You have so many guys chasing you because of your exterior beauty that you have never truly experienced someone who looked to your inner beauty. You may have thought they have, but overall – I’d have to go with no. I know you’ve been in some long relationships and you’ll use that to say I’m wrong but let me ask you this question – if you had freckles, put on 20 pounds and crooked teeth, do you think any of them would have given you a second look? Honestly? Look at the past, I think you’ll see a recurring pattern of behaviors and personalities in guys you’ve been involved with that show I might just be right. But that doesn’t make them right – just because they weren’t looking for it, doesn’t mean it isn’t there…because it is and here I know I’m right for a fact because I’ve experienced it for upwards of 5 years. Physical beauty is common; to be truly special you need to go deeper. And you got it. You carry yourself with such poise and elegance; you’re a picture of class. You’re independent and intelligent. Smart enough to take care of yourself and you don’t ever need to be dependent upon somebody else for success. Driven – A perfect word to describe you, it’s that can do attitude, the attitude that would make you jump off a bridge if somebody told you that you wouldn’t and that’s what is gonna make you extremely successful. Then there’s your sense of humor. One of the rarest qualities in women. When we hang out I have a hard time thinking when we don’t laugh together. You’re fun to be around – it’s never a chore to go to dinner with you like it is with so many other women. Not many women have that. Then with that laugh comes that smile, the smile that could light up an entire room…if you would just stop being sad all the time and show it some more. But then there are those times when I just look at you and know you’re sad and all those beautiful characteristics don’t show through. Don’t let that happen, because if you do, you’ll become exactly what’s described above – just a pretty face with a hollow inside. You’re more than that. Don’t take it for more than it is, but read it a few times and think about it. Let’s reschedule that dinner from Monday if you want to talk more about it." Thanks Guys |
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