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Author:  Lmstudfosho [ Wed Sep 01, 2010 8:39 am ]
Post subject:  Trying to close HB8

I met this HB8 in my condo complex at the pool. She lives in my building on my same floor.( Not to sound too AFC but I really felt a connection with this one). Neither of us had our phones on us so we just swapped unit numbers. 3 days later I man up and knock on her door. She wasn't home so I left my number with her roommate. A week goes by and no call. Then shortly after leaving my unit to go to the gym I run into her in the hallway. I didn't recognize her at first but she smiled and stopped and tried to start a conversation with me. I kept it short and told her I was on my way to the gym. A couple days later she knocks on my door after she had been drinking at the pool all day and was really flirty with me. I invited her in and got her number. I text her a couple days later to make plans to BBQ, she was out of town. Next week I text her to invite her to a club where I had a VIP list with open bar. She was sick. The following week I text her and invite her to have sushi with me, she agrees to go out with me with many smiley face texts in our conversation. Picked her up, went out for sushi and yogurt, had good conversation.(Every time i opened her door for her she leaned over and opened mine for me. I cant remember the last time a girl did that). Then I invited her back to0 my place to hang out, she was a little reluctant but did anyways. We listened to House music and talked. I invited her to sit on the couch next to me, but she sat in a chair right across from me instead. After a while she said she was tired and I walked her back to her unit, we hugged and that was it.
The next day I invite her to go to a pool party with me and a friend of mine who was with a chick he flew in from out of town. I asked if she wanted to ride with or meet me there and she said she wanted to follow me. (Didnt know how to read that one). At the pool we had good conversation, she would look and me and just smile from time to time. There after we went to a bar for drinks and I busted out my "Physiological Profile" bit i run. She asked what it would tell me about her, I then said "it might tell me to back off from you". Then she asked what my intentions are with her. (WHY DO GIRLS ASK THAT?). I told her I was just trying to get to know her but open to the idea of dating, also that I wasnt out looking for a GF but if it happens it happens. She said she is really just looking for friends. (she just moved here 3 months ago). After a few more drinks we became a bit more flirty and I gave her a hand massage with led to a shoulder massage. (I am a massage therapist). We then bounced the 4 of us back to the hot tub at my condo complex. She lost a bet on which level we parked on so I told her she owed me a massage. She rubbed my arms shoulders neck and chest in the hot tub. (she was pretty damn good). Then after I massaged her. After close to an hour in the hot tub we bounced back to my condo and the 4 of us hung out before departing. I walked her back to her unit and she playfully hung on me during the walk there. When we hugged good night I kissed her on the check and she squeezed me tight for at least 30 seconds. I said "wow that was an intense hug". She just smiled and went inside.
I didnt call her the next day. I called her the following day to invite her to a VIP media event I'm working, she didnt answer, I left a voice-mail.

My Question is where do I go next? Is she really just looking for friends? Should I back off for a few days? Her birthday is on Friday, should I do anything for her?

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