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HB cancelled 2nd date per sms! what can I do now?
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Author:  elastico [ Sat Aug 21, 2010 7:39 pm ]
Post subject:  HB cancelled 2nd date per sms! what can I do now?
Hi!

I´m 30 and she´s 18.
After some weeks of online game we met in a park for fluent conversation, kino, C&F and KCs.

All the routines and Rapport building worked great until someone stole her purse!!! :? That was exactly in the moment when we kissed... Afterwards there were some location changes and more KC and hugs.

After some days she cancelled the 2nd date per sms because she "wasn´t feeling good" :?: . I got the msg late when I was already at the meeting point... and I called her. She didn´t answer the phone and didn´t call back.

Should I contact her after a few days or not contact her at all until she does?!? :?:
Author:  elastico [ Sun Aug 22, 2010 6:41 pm ]
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I need your PUA opinion guys! This girl is really hot! :D
Author:  Arte [ Sun Aug 22, 2010 8:01 pm ]
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You should wait a couple of days, before contacting her. If you contact her right away you will be needy and "stalking dude".

When you contact her you should rush another date-appointment right away, just ask if everything is alright(not "why didnt you show up, bitch") etc.
Author:  Junglepimp [ Sun Aug 22, 2010 8:14 pm ]
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Consider the possibility of her being in a depressed state.. it isn't something that should let down your PUA spirit. She has turned the date down, not you. Just let her know that if she wants someone to share stuff with, she can come to you anytime. After that, just stay patient and calm and wait for her response.
Author:  elastico [ Sun Aug 22, 2010 8:28 pm ]
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thx man!
You mean I shouldn´t rush another date-appointment right away, right?
Quote:
You should wait a couple of days, before contacting her. If you contact her right away you will be needy and "stalking dude".

When you contact her you should rush another date-appointment right away, just ask if everything is alright(not "why didnt you show up, bitch") etc.
Author:  overcome [ Sun Aug 22, 2010 8:31 pm ]
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OP,

Dude she blew you off. She canceled the date via text message, then she didn't answer her phone? Yeah that doesn't sound very promising. I would wait at least 3 days before contacting her via text message BUT its ok to answer if she calls/texts you before the 72 hours are up.

Good luck cradle robber

Just kidding
Author:  elastico [ Sun Aug 22, 2010 8:50 pm ]
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thx!

I saw her online, but I didn´t write. It´s been 48 hours so I think I´m gonna wait a bit longer... :?
Author:  overcome [ Sun Aug 22, 2010 11:34 pm ]
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Quote:
thx!

I saw her online, but I didn´t write. It´s been 48 hours so I think I´m gonna wait a bit longer... :?
Yes, wait another day or two. If she doesn't contact you at all just be prepared to move on because she probably already has....don't develop a case of "one-itis" and start following this girl like a puppy. I know its easier said than done...

As an aspiring PUA you should be gaming chicks almost everyday so losing this girl really is HER lose NOT yours.

Good luck in all future en devours
Author:  elastico [ Mon Aug 23, 2010 12:36 pm ]
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thx man

Yeah, oneitis might be scary to a lot of people people because it´s risky.

Anyway, I guess I can´t lose anything if I contact her and try to game her again...
Author:  Arte [ Mon Aug 23, 2010 2:00 pm ]
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Quote:
thx man!
You mean I shouldn´t rush another date-appointment right away, right?
Quote:
You should wait a couple of days, before contacting her. If you contact her right away you will be needy and "stalking dude".

When you contact her you should rush another date-appointment right away, just ask if everything is alright(not "why didnt you show up, bitch") etc.
Yeah =)
Author:  elastico [ Tue Aug 24, 2010 1:22 pm ]
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we were writing and today she throws at me:

"I think this date wasn´t such a good idea, cause there are some aspects of your person, I don´t like" :shock:

Any suggestions how to answer this? :?:

What about this answer?:D

"You know you like most aspects of my person a lot and that´s what´s confusing you"
Author:  Junglepimp [ Tue Aug 24, 2010 6:38 pm ]
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It shows she has developed repulsion towards you for some reason or the other. Move on or try to fix it, it's entirely up to you. (I'd move on though).
Author:  elastico [ Tue Aug 24, 2010 7:23 pm ]
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I actually don´t have any idea what she means by "some aspects of my person" and I´m kind of curious.. :?:
Author:  Pickup Truck [ Wed Aug 25, 2010 9:33 am ]
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Shit test.

I could bet a lot of money right now that one of the aspects is your age.
Author:  GKS [ Wed Aug 25, 2010 12:53 pm ]
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This happens all the time. Chick lives for the moment, that's how us PUAs take advantage out of it. But in the mean time, they are weird creatures that if we allow them enough for their logical mind to kick in, they will come up with tons of ridiculous reasons.
"Woman is like hot iron, gotta strike it when it's hot"
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