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| Author: | hard2get [ Wed Jul 07, 2010 8:27 am ] |
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So,here i am,dunno what to do with this girl. I new her for about 2 years but we never got in some real contact,just hi-hi. Two weeks ago,i met her at club and she came to me with her girlfriend and she danced with me,teased me and gave me few pecks. Lets just say it was boiled between us,but since than i saw her this saturday and again we danced but just for 5min because her girlfriend told her they should go home. I could have offered to drive her home if i wasnt drinking. So, should i text her something? After all i didnt ask for number,i get it from her friend other day. |
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| Author: | a40536 [ Wed Jul 07, 2010 9:10 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: "Friend" |
Quote: So,here i am,dunno what to do with this girl. I new her for about 2 years but we never got in some real contact,just hi-hi. Two weeks ago,i met her at club and she came to me with her girlfriend and she danced with me,teased me and gave me few pecks. Lets just say it was boiled between us,but since than i saw her this saturday and again we danced but just for 5min because her girlfriend told her they should go home. I could have offered to drive her home if i wasnt drinking. So, should i text her something? After all i didnt ask for number,i get it from her friend other day.
Well.. if her freind gave you her number she probably likes you... if it was me, i would probably text her something like:"Hey Amanda, i think jade is trying to set us up, first she keeps telling me how cool you are, and now she is saying we are so similar.... [[Jade, and i are going to [ygc] this weakend do you fancy coming along so i can get to know you a little better]] or [[i remember you said you liked xyn so....]]" |
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| Author: | hard2get [ Sun Jul 11, 2010 4:03 pm ] |
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well...i didnt ask her on "date" instead we danced again this weekend and teased each other...good friend of mine talked to her to see if he can get some info how she feels about me and she told him that she sees me as friend and wants to hang out with me... this saturday i am making a party so she will be there...hopefully we will be together 
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| Author: | hard2get [ Mon Jul 12, 2010 9:03 am ] |
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quick update and quick question...i found out she wants to go on carnival today but i dunno how to ask her because i am not supposed to know that she wants to go? |
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| Author: | Herne [ Mon Jul 12, 2010 9:16 am ] |
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she will be going anyway---dont tell her you know---call her ''listen im thinking of going to carnaval would you like''....and no matter how much she might pry about did u know she was going just lie |
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| Author: | hard2get [ Mon Jul 12, 2010 1:13 pm ] |
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uh,i asked her and she says she is going with her brother but i can go with them...so..i am afraid if i go with them i am getting close to "just friends" zone... what do you think |
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| Author: | a40536 [ Mon Jul 12, 2010 6:17 pm ] |
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Quote: uh,i asked her and she says she is going with her brother but i can go with them...so..i am afraid if i go with them i am getting close to "just friends" zone... what do you think
you invited her to somewhere you knew she was already going so it would seem strange if you didnt go just becuase she was going with her brother, and realistically itdepends how old this brother is.. if he was for instance 5 years old then you could still escalate, talk, have fun with her, (just covertly..) however if he is i dunno 19 you might get punched in the mouth if you tried something hahaha My point is, if you where going with her and her brother it doesnt nessassarily mean you will nessasarily be freind zoned, you just need to escalte.. |
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| Author: | Herne [ Mon Jul 12, 2010 6:25 pm ] |
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and if you dont go because of the brother now--it will look like you are hiding something or have ill intentions ---so you better just go |
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| Author: | hard2get [ Tue Jul 13, 2010 3:37 pm ] |
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great,because i went with them and it was good...friendly but good...so now i need to wait till saturday when she will come to my party... i would like to go with her on coffee or something before that but problem is that it is always me who initiates that and calls her... she never invited me first... so should i do that again? |
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| Author: | Herne [ Tue Jul 13, 2010 4:39 pm ] |
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yeah you should-- should never get into the who called who first game--just dont seem over anxious or needy when you do it--- the call for call or invite for invite rule shouldnt be rigid .now if you called or invited 5 times first or made 5 calls back before she made an invite or call then yeah that would be different. on calls or invites where she doesnt answer or cancelled on you without good reason--i recommend a tree strikes rule |
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| Author: | hard2get [ Sun Jul 25, 2010 9:23 pm ] |
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here i am,stuck again... this saturday we hanged and danced together but she wouldnt let me get so close to her...we talked and she told me that she saw some guy in which she was in love and maybe still is...than she started talking something about friends,how important they are to her and she doesnt want to loose them.I took her home and hugged her at end,but didnt escalate because of whole thing that night. So,now,she sees me as friend and i want to change that...how could she change in two weeks,from practically being together to this |
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| Author: | Herne [ Tue Jul 27, 2010 2:56 am ] |
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all is not lost--don't make a big deal of it--when she was talking about friends she mightent necessarily have be refering to you---you don't even know whether this guy she says she was in love with exists--she could be playing the jealousy card |
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| Author: | hard2get [ Mon Sep 20, 2010 11:44 am ] |
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this is starting to get ridiculous already... i still didnt kiss her...my male friend who is good with her was talking with her about me and she told him that she doesnt like my character,she wants a men to kiss her if he wants it and talk to her about everything...now i have this obstacle in my head that if i try to kiss her i would make it worse since she knows i like her and i didnt do anything so long.Morevoer,shes kinda avoiding me,sometimes she comes to me sometimes she pretends like i dont exist. Should i go for a kiss next time? |
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| Author: | Herne [ Wed Sep 22, 2010 5:34 pm ] |
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yes |
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| Author: | hard2get [ Fri Sep 24, 2010 1:29 pm ] |
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Another thing  I foun out that she now has msn and she allready gave address to few ppl but i am not one of them  so how could i aks her without asking her for it...i want to hear more often from her.
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