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Author:  cagewalker [ Tue Jun 01, 2010 11:46 am ]
Post subject:  Forced to see a girl straight after first date. Issue?

Gents, just a bit of background.

I've been gaming a girl recently who is smart (straight A college student with high confidence).

We've been on 2 short outtings after uni (both less than 1 hr each). Both times she had great body language, mirroring etc.

Today was our first 'real outting', we spent 4 hours studying and drinking coffee. It was low-key and the conversation went smoothly, but my kino SUCKS and I fear being friend-zoned. All I got was a peck on the cheek at good bye.

Secondly, I will be seeing her in class tomorrow. My rule is to not see a girl for awhile after our first date as I don't want to 'overcontact'. Is this going to be a problem? If so, how would you veterans avoid it?

My main issue is that my kino sucks with this girl. We are both reserved, yet fairly confident by nature. I'm not a touchy feely person normally. I went to military school and although I speak slowly, move slowly and generally have a military bearing which has worked well for me in the past, I think I come across as awkward when I touch.

CLIFFNOTES:

- Will seeing her in class less than 24 hours after first date be problematic? If so, how to avoid it. How to react? This is a new scenario I'm not familiar with.

- Advise on Kino for a guy whose overall personality isn't particularly touchy feely (i.e I find routines not to work well for me as it is plainly against my personality and girls see that)

Author:  cagewalker [ Tue Jun 01, 2010 10:46 pm ]
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Will hanging out with her after class 24 hours after first date be a bad idea or kill attraction?

I'm still learning the ropes of this, and could really appreciate even a 'yes' or 'no' answer to that issue.

Author:  zendelo [ Wed Jun 02, 2010 2:31 pm ]
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Depends bro, if the peck on the cheek was followed by a wide smile and a strong look in each others eyes, it's great.

If the peck on the cheek was like, oh ye well gtg bye, and gone you were. Then it's less good.

If she showed interest in you, then you are going somewhere.
Just make sure you neg her, DHV a little be Cocky & Funny. And check out a kino routine somewhere and do it.

Be playfull and enthousiast be yourself be comfortable. Things should roll naturually.

Good luck bro!

Author:  cagewalker [ Thu Jun 03, 2010 4:14 am ]
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Thanks mate.

We ended up hanging out after class anyway. As the lessons finished, I said "I'm going for a coffee" and began to walk away.

After a few steps, I turn back and she's standing there with a smile. She says something like - "and I'll come with you?"

We ended up going for a long walk. I never told her where we were going. She didn't ask or seem to mind. Just talked for abit.

Cheers for the advice.

Author:  M_j_f [ Thu Jun 03, 2010 6:16 am ]
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She's obviously into you. Learn some kino and some kiss close routines to seal the deal. Gl bro. 8)

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