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Author:  Gold_Coin [ Mon Aug 10, 2009 1:54 am ]
Post subject:  I just can't do it...
i have been seeing this girl lately and we like each other but i just can't bring myself around for the kiss. i get stuck whenever i think of it and i don't know what to do. please please please help me.
Author:  Marc [ Mon Aug 10, 2009 3:50 am ]
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i have been seeing this girl lately and we like each other but i just can't bring myself around for the kiss. i get stuck whenever i think of it and i don't know what to do. please please please help me.
Dont kiss her. After 2 months when she breaks up with you and goes to another guy you can watch from behind the tree how he goes in to kiss her and learn how its done.

What is wrong with you !! :twisted: Go in an kiss her. If she likes you she would would accept and return your kiss. And if she doesnt than she would not return your kiss. Dive in ! :wink:
Author:  teminalx1 [ Mon Aug 10, 2009 10:41 am ]
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haha ive been there man, and seriously i know its uncomfortable coming out of your comfort zone and shit, but thats what this shit is all about. only u can make the results. if u both like each other then its really not a big deal. just do it man your money!
Author:  Magic-J [ Mon Aug 10, 2009 11:00 am ]
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Ask her

"Would you like to kiss me?"

If she says YES, then kiss her.

If she says MAYBE or I DUNNO, then say "well let's find out then" (with a cheeky smile) then lean in.

If she says NO, then say "I didn't say you could, it just looked like you had something running through your mind"

Hope this helps :)
Author:  Steven [ Mon Aug 10, 2009 4:40 pm ]
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Ok there is a very simply method that you can use to get the first kiss.

Jus say the following,

You - Are your eyelashes real because they look amazing?

Her - Yes/No

You if its a yes - I dont believe you, close your eyes a sec so i can see they arn't fake. When her eyes are closed go in for the kiss.

You is its a no - Really? close your eyes so I can see how there attached. Then again go in for the kiss when her eyes are closed.


Ive used this a few times with 100% success.

Go for it before you lose the chance and end up regreting it!

Good Luck!
Author:  Winchester [ Mon Aug 10, 2009 6:01 pm ]
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The fact your nervous about it is a good thing, it will feel awesome when you finally kiss her, just next time you see her, there will be a moment, and then just go for it man, remember good things happen when you take risks!

p.s. Do not do those crappy kissing routines, just do it ;)
Author:  tweeby [ Mon Aug 10, 2009 8:34 pm ]
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The fact your nervous about it is a good thing, it will feel awesome when you finally kiss her,
No I have to respectfully disagree, being in a state of nervousness is BAD


Here's the shyt. At the moment you ARE in a state of nervousness and fright. YES you are, you KNOW YOU ARE. When you see her you are scared so shitless you can't even look at her to even begin to try and imagine kissing her. NOT GOOD.


This will confuse you, so when you push yourself onto her, she will sense your nervousness and back the FUCK OFF.


So this is a STATE PROBLEM. In other words, you hold the 'punani' so high up on your pedestal you're AFRAID to touch it. Ha ha.

There is ONLY one way to correct this. You NEED to get into a SEXUAL STATE. This is a state where you feel a pain in your stomach. Like when you haven't wacked it off for a while and you're so frustrated you just want to to FUCK her brains out (ha ha). Don't worry about being in this state. She CAN SENSE your state, but it doesn't matter. Because you're not behaving like one of those other chodes who hides their intentions and then when they try in on she gets creeped out by them.

Yes being sexually aggressive and UNAPOLOGETIC is good. More so for you.

FUCK all those kissing routines. It will mean NOTHING and come to pass if you ARE NOT already in a sexual state.

So get into that state and remember the cardinal rule. She's just a little puppy dog with no direction. She doesn't know how to behave. You were put on this earth to lead.
Author:  Manda Chuva [ Mon Aug 10, 2009 10:20 pm ]
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Picture every Pua looking at you in dissapointment and slapping the shyt out of you
Author:  [Vegas] [ Tue Aug 11, 2009 8:49 am ]
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Picture every Pua looking at you in dissapointment and slapping the shyt out of you
Haha not sure why but I found that pretty funny. :lol:

Anyways... if it makes you more comfortable, play a game with yourself mentally. Now I've never done this before nor do I use routines, but this is just an idea that popped into my head right now as I was reading this thread. You said that the two of you like each other, so I will assume she shows interest in you and complies.

The next time you two hang out, tell yourself that she needs to acquire 3-5 points to receive or earn a kiss. She earns points by complying with you or showing strong interest. Each time you "feel" that she is connecting with you (and you will) and returning interest, give her a point. For her final point, hold your hand out and see if she goes in for the hold. If she holds your hand, you know she is comfortable with you... she earns the kiss and you should have enough compliance to feel confident enough to go in for it. Remember, this game is mental and she shouldn't know you're doing it. It's just a nonverbal way of giving yourself more evidence than you even need to reassure yourself that she is into you and will reciprocate your kiss.

By mentally taking note of her body language, tone of voice, level of flirting, etc. you can get a feel for how she is reacting to what you do (obviously). You said that you two are into each other, so she should have no problem reciprocating the flirting/kiss.

Well, I've had about 6 hours of sleep in the last two nights (no excuses!) so maybe all I typed was rambling and my idea didn't type out right... If it's not easily understood I'll try to reword it. :lol:
Author:  Gold_Coin [ Fri Aug 14, 2009 1:16 am ]
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Ok there is a very simply method that you can use to get the first kiss.

Jus say the following,

You - Are your eyelashes real because they look amazing?

Her - Yes/No

You if its a yes - I dont believe you, close your eyes a sec so i can see they arn't fake. When her eyes are closed go in for the kiss.

You is its a no - Really? close your eyes so I can see how there attached. Then again go in for the kiss when her eyes are closed.


Ive used this a few times with 100% success.

Go for it before you lose the chance and end up regreting it!

Good Luck!
cheers for that mate. it fucking worked..she said it was abit cheeky but when i dropped her off home she gave me one back.... but thanks to everyone else for your idea's.. much appreciated.
Author:  [Vegas] [ Fri Aug 14, 2009 5:17 am ]
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Congratulation, man. I'm glad we could help you out and you found something that worked for you. You should feel really good about yourself right now!
Author:  tweeby [ Fri Aug 14, 2009 8:16 am ]
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You manned up and stepped up to the mantle. Well done. Eventually you won't need a kissing routine. That's when you've hit the next level.
Author:  Gold_Coin [ Fri Aug 14, 2009 11:12 am ]
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You manned up and stepped up to the mantle. Well done. Eventually you won't need a kissing routine. That's when you've hit the next level.
what is the next level? if you don't mind me asking
Author:  tweeby [ Fri Aug 14, 2009 11:54 am ]
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In my humble opinion the NEXT LEVEL, (and I'm not there yet by no means), is when you reach a stage of your game where you don't need the routines or any shit like that to fall back on. (In my opinion routines are still AFC bullshit that chicks can see a mile off to help lesser men achieve their end goals.)

The NEXT LEVEL is pure alpha male behaviour.

Basically, you go in, give them the eye, and get what YOU want. You ooze confidence. What the pua's call naturals.
Author:  Manda Chuva [ Fri Aug 14, 2009 11:49 pm ]
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The next level is 5 out 5 getting the girl no matter the situation , my outlook is i can always be better so i got to strive to be better , as far as the routines go i think they are pretty kool after all it makes more fun to the girl and for youreself; as u done one such as the cube not only do you demonstrate value but it helps with the interaction by making it unique
So who s ( An example here DAVE) he s the guy that told me alot about myself he showed me the cube its really kool next time we c each other il try and get him to do the cube on you
and thts y routines are awesome no matter where ure game is at , u still have hard wired answers after all if we stop and think about it Life is a routine after all ,we wake up and sleep and eat it might not be all the same but you will do some routines everyday
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