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Author:  PhantomNYC [ Sat Apr 04, 2009 6:33 am ]
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Hey guys I reccently number closed a girl on a train and had everything going fine, even on the phone the comfort was good, had her saying "I really like talking to u I'm usually not like this, I feel like I'v known u my whole life"

So I said I'm gonna c her on sunday, she said u got it, I told her I was gonna call her that night with the the details...

That night she txts me she's not in the mood to talk, I ask what's wrong, she doesn't wanna talk about it, a few min later she asks me if I wanted to go somewhere with her and her friend on sunday, museam and some vegan resturant that her friend wants to go to..(EWW BORING!!!),
After she told me that...
Phantom: ur plans sound boring
Hb9: alright w.e
Phantom: I have much more interesting plans
Hb9: okay
Phantom: u really r upset
Hb9: long day w.e

she either doesn't trust me yet or her friend insisted on coming (the other girl was there for the pickup and had actually talked to me on facebook a bit, attraction is deff there)....I don't want the friend there
I txted her "we'll decide on what to do tomorrow, if ur bringing a friend so am I :P"....I already have a pua wing to come if required

What can I do to take the friend out of the picture and have a 1 on 1 day 2? 8)
Author:  Dr. Gruuve [ Sat Apr 04, 2009 7:14 am ]
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Is the friend cute? The immediate thought that pops into my mind is...threesome! :twisted:

Gruuve
Author:  PhantomNYC [ Sat Apr 04, 2009 7:24 am ]
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haha she is but i don't think i can pull that off yet
Author:  Hypnotix [ Wed Apr 08, 2009 5:49 am ]
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I think you shouldve went with the museum thing. I think it was her way of having a pre date. She met you on a trian and maybe her friend was like 'girl lemme check this guy out for you before you go any further' Hit it off with the friend and you're in!!

You may have come off as a 'I only want one thing' player king of guy in girl language.

But fuck it, its in the past.....just carry on.
Author:  Maf-PbC [ Thu Apr 09, 2009 6:25 pm ]
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def can tell you prob 90% her friend scoped you out via facebook, caught you "at ease" and INSISTED from there that she tag along with your target girl until you prove yourself otherwise..a safety measure. Had it happen to me before on a first date with a chick ,her friend all of a sudden insisted she tag along and i was furious as fuck.

Its a fucked up world in which we live, where people put their decisions in other peoples hands, they cannot make life changing decisions on their own WHEN THE DECISION affects them only and not their friend. Whether or not its a case of being lazy/unable but a fact of jealously 1st and concern 2nd when shit like this comes up.

Makes me drop to me knees and pray to god in thanks when i meet a girl that's not having her friends overlook all her decisions like this. Trust me ive been down this path a few times before and its a serious fucking pain the ass. Safety measure implemented sometimes to watch out for their friends(as us guys would advise a friend getting in fresh with some chick) but sometimes its a vicious cock block(as it happened to me). WATCH FOR IT!

Enjoy brah.
Author:  osxbman [ Sun Apr 12, 2009 1:33 am ]
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WORK ON HER FRIEND!

2 for 1 deal
Author:  Libido [ Sun Apr 12, 2009 2:57 am ]
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when that happens to me it tells me she isnt comfortable enough with me to be completely alone.
Her friend is prolly being the final say to decide if she should let u in the panties. Or, you could think of it as, her and her friend already had plans and she wants to be with u badly enough that u can intrude on her and her friend. Let us know how it went
Author:  sixtopher [ Tue Apr 14, 2009 12:11 am ]
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The whole your ideas are boring thing...completely unnecessary. Her friend most likely called you a jerk/asshole/clown and that chance is gone.

Yea you should have went with the museum thing. say you'll bring a friend of your own. (Always have an open fun pivot on call for situations like this)
Also you dismissed her idea without coming up with an idea of your own. Maybe a compromise "OK miss lady the museum thing sounds good but I'll trade you the vegan restaurant for this wonderful italian place. They serve great fresh salads for the vegan in your party" Or just completely come up with a date of your own and see if she'll bite. "How about instead of that I know this great park/convention/theatre/other venue."

Not only that but as a PUA you should be able to set the frame when you get there. Go to the museum and just take them both wherever you really want to go. ad yes...opt for the threesome.
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