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Author:  Lemarc [ Mon Mar 30, 2009 11:28 am ]
Post subject:  Texting vs. Phone game
I came to the realization that texting when after you first get the number is a huge mistake to do at first. You can never get to know anyone because it's so impersonal and the purpose of text messages are for commands and to make a quick statement. Ex: meet me at the club at 9 tonight.
Anything else is ackward and uncomfortable. A lot of times women don't respond to some messages simply because they don't know you and a lot of times they don't know what to say and afraid to be judged if they say the wrong thing.

I looked back and all the women I had sex with were because we've spent time on the phone. Even tho pua's are against having deep conversations anywhere but in person. I love to talk, and can easily have a women wanting sex after the first or second call. But I think anytime after is perfect for texting stuff because she has a better feel for your personality now. I think a lot more numbers go stale a lot faster also because it's a constant wave of compliance back and forth from you to her that subconsciously builds trust. If you're saying the right things your compliance will be stronger, right? But if it's weak it'll be a greater chance she won't respond to your last text. So, u reopen later, each time with less value than before until your value is so low to her that she finally gives up and stops responding.

Anyways, What do you guys feel is a stronger approach
Author:  Zikki [ Mon Mar 30, 2009 11:33 am ]
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I think it depends on how strong ur game was when u # closed the girl.... If u aready had her eating out of ur palm and then #closed instead of f-closed then u cud probably get her into bed using more code for godsake.

Its all bout the quality of work youve done, if u just got a number in 3 minutes and barely remember her name, even ringing her u probably aint increasing ur chances.

The woman has to already want u when u get the number, otherwise the number is just one more to scroll by when u dailing up the girl u actually fucking lol.

Ive F-closed on a day2 using txt game only, phone call only, no phone at all.... the mettle is in ur technique not in your medium
Author:  Chester167 [ Tue Mar 31, 2009 4:18 pm ]
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i do a lot more damage (in a good way) with texting.

tho i almost use it exclusively.

i look at it as if it was me......
.... i come off very sarcastic...... they kno this after meeting me in person within 30 sec, so all my msgs come off that way which is great cuz i can say anything almost.. sexual or otherwise in text and usually get away with it.....

i also HATE when ppl call me. i don't like talking on the phone at all and i hate ppl ringing me when im living my life.. a quick beep of a text. i can check it at my convenience is much appreciated. .. chicks with blackberries tend to text a lot more.. which a lot of chicks have them now.. so i think they also like the text.. gives them the same convenience . they dont worry about what to say cuz they have time to think.... and if they really didnt want you then they feel safe and dont have to respond..... (but u SHOULD know that from how the initial meeting went)
Author:  Lemarc [ Wed Apr 01, 2009 12:45 pm ]
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[byeah Chester that's true and I'm really good with texting but I don't want to put the time into it, it's boring plus I'm a phone guy. I like tonality because it says more than just the words.

I enjoy immediate responses, being smooth on my toes and quick thinking. One thing me and other guys notice about text game is that everything could be smooth or flawless and she could be real into you but if you say one or two things wrong she'll not respond and move on completely

Haha I'm starting to get annoyed on how rediculous women can be sometimes][/b]
Author:  czar1 [ Mon Apr 06, 2009 3:31 am ]
Post subject:  texting
I think texting is more convenient for people, especially women. Let's face it, we're a digital society and people's social skills have deteriorated because of IM's, texts and every other non-personal communication.
It's just the way it is these days.
Author:  Blacksheep [ Mon Apr 13, 2009 2:12 am ]
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Texting is better now a days. If you called a girl she might actually think thats wierd. I know talking is more personal etc., but the fact of the matter is that its changed over. Especially if your in a younger age catagory, the art of the phone call is dieing. you have to just adapt to it
Author:  Lemarc [ Mon May 11, 2009 8:00 am ]
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REGARDING THE LAST COMMENTS, THATS A DAMN SHAME HOW THIS GENERATION WE WANT EVERYTHING "FAST AND NOW" BUT AT THE SAME TIME EVERYTHING IS SO IMPERSONAL THERE'S NO SIGNIFICANCE ONCE THEY GET IT.
Author:  beachbuy [ Sat May 16, 2009 4:44 pm ]
Post subject:  Theres no single answer to that quesiton.
"I see you invested some time into your nails, i bet you preffer phone calls over texting" :)


You see Sprks started a very good thread.
Almost each reply was a different answer, thats because people are different.


Its best during ur first day when u met the girl to ASK if she preffers calls or texting when she meets a new guy.Conversations are easy going once or prior the N-close so it will be easy for you to find out.




From my expirience younger girls (18-20) like sms game cos they just got off high school and thats a communication they used there for long time so they are used to it.

For older women (im 22 but i look older so i have no trouble to get women up to 29 years old) i used to get very bad results with texting, i acctualy barely could make some of them go out with me if i tried with texting althought we had terrific start.
Since i started phoning girls/women i always have better results.


Remember, its very easy to ask and find out, dont risk ur investment ($, time , talking) because u was too lazy to remember to ask.

In my opinion, if you havent asked - its best to go for a phone call, a self confident man would call - after all she doesnt knows u yet, writing text shows only that u know how to write, calling, talking shows that u r the same person she met yesterday, remind her how she felt with u and why she gave u the number and much more crap that women catch on by conversations.
Author:  Jlax [ Sun May 17, 2009 7:21 pm ]
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I also learned the same thing... If you text the girl after youve got her number its very predictable... instead go for the phone call... Its unexpected and shows you are very confident... All guys text girls after they get their numbers... This is a predictable thing all guys do... Dont be like other guys and call her ;] She'll love it and youll have a better chance of hooking upp with her. Make sure your phone game is tight.
Author:  Lemarc [ Mon May 18, 2009 12:38 pm ]
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I AGREE STRONGLY WITH THE LAST POSTS ON HERE. LATELY, I'VE BEEN TWEAKING MY C1 GAME A BIT AND REALIZED I'VE BEEN DOING A LOT OF THINGS WRONG. AFTER YOU GET THE GIRLS NUMBER YOU SHOULD ALREADY BE PAST QUALIFICATION, RIGHT? WELL I WOULD DO THAT THEN TEXT THEM LIKE THE NEXT DAY AND DO A2 (COCKY/FUNNY) ALL OVER AGAIN. SOOOO WRONG! THE FUNNY THING IS I NOTICE SO MANY GUYS ON HERE DOING IT AND AS THEY'RE TEXTING THEM DOING A2 OVER AGAIN THE GIRL STILL HAS HER GUARDS UP AND IT JUST MAKES IT MORE DIFFICULT EVEN IF YOU DO END UP GETTING LAID.

WHAT I SHOULD HAVE BEEN DOING IS BEFORE I TRY ANYTHING, TO LET HER KNOW THAT WHEN WE MET HOW SHE WAS DIFFERENT THAN OTHER GIRLS,THAT HER VIBE AND ENERGY REALLY IMPRESSED ME AND HOW SHE SEEMED DOWN TO EARTH, MORE IMPORTANTLY THAT I'M WILLING TO FIND OUT MORE ABOUT HER. WHAT I FOUND OUT IF YOU'RE GAMING A CHICK AND SHE'S ALREADY QUALIFIED HERSELF TO YOU SHE'S MORE THAN WILLING TO DO IT AGAIN AND MUCH EASIER IN COMFORT.

SO IF YOU SAY SHE SEEMS NICE AND SWEET OR NURTURING AND SHE AGREES THAN SHE'LL MOST LIKELY ACT ACCORDING AND LESSENS YOUR CHANCES OF A FLAKE BECAUSE U GUYS HAVE ALREADY ACCEPTED YOU LIKE EACH OTHER SO FAR AND ARE WILLING TO TAKE THE TIME TO GET TO KNOW ONE ANOTHER. SO IT MAKES IT EASIER TO SET UP A DAY 2 AND SHE'LL BE WILLING TO SHOW YOU MULTIPLE SIDES OF HER.
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