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| Author: | twoplustwo [ Wed Jan 21, 2009 10:18 pm ] |
| Post subject: | First Outing - Slightly diff situation |
Hi guys, On Saturday I've a girl coming over from a town 20 mins or so away. She's coming here for the evening - I can't pull the "short date" thing imo. She works at my office and we've spoken a bit and text/email a lot. She'll be over from around 6PM and the plan is for her to stay at mine. I've already told her she can sleep in the hallway or pantry I think I'll take her all over town to various places for a few drinks, some food thrown in the mixer, with a couple of DVDs I know she's into/might like back at mine. I'd like to do something a little different, but am short of ideas that aren't in the day time. Any advice on how to handle it? |
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| Author: | Fair_Rose [ Fri Jan 23, 2009 5:47 pm ] |
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I just literally posted this technique on another theard in this forum. I call this Wash, Rinse Repeat: Tell her that you want her to go shopping with you. Just you and her chilling for the day. Make sure the mall you go to has a Bed, Bath, & Beyond. Go in, and ask her to pick out some candles, body soap, shampoo, things of that nature. At this point there's no turning back. Tell her (don't ask her) in a nonchalant way "So your coming over tonight, and we're taking a bath. I'm cooking...uh... what do you want to eat?" It's important that you follow this up with the What do you want to eat. The bath is already implied, so if she makes suggestions on what she wants to eat, then you know that she's down. This is called Implied Speak. Women do this ALL the time. When they ask you are you stopping by the fridge anytime soon (when you're perfectly sitting on the couch), you ask why and they say oh, that they were just a little thristy. That's implication. She's implying that she want you to get her something to drink. This is the same thing. There's 3 Steps to this esculation. 1) If she enters the Bed, Bath, & Beyond with you (mostly only couple shop here). 2) When you suggest different candles for your bedroom, and bathroom, and she gives you advice (candles, and incense usually imply sexual connotations). 3) If she tells you what she wants you to cook that night (also implying she knows its on, as far as the bath). Like I said. Wash, Rinse, and Repeat. |
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| Author: | twoplustwo [ Fri Jan 23, 2009 6:57 pm ] |
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Hi Fair, Good advice, will try this in the week if it goes well tmo. Do you have any advice for the evening time situ I posted? |
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