Hi. New here. I'm really interested in learning what I should do in this situation.
I saw an HB9 at a club. Approached her, lots of neg, tease, cocky/funny, kino. Built rapport, talked about a lot of interesting stuff, DHV for about 25 minutes. Then we went to a private area, and I escalated kino to a kiss which she enthusiastically returned. Pulled back, talked a bit more, mentioned that I like sushi, and she says she loves it and said we should hang out sometime. Took it as IOI and asked her if she was free this weekend, but she said she was working and wasn't sure of her schedule for next weekend so to give her a call the next day. Got her number. Made out with her with lots of kino (2nd base...she pretty much led my hand).
Today is two days after we met, and I texted her late this afternoon. I pretty much messaged: "hey [hb9]. it's [my name]. just got back from the pet shop and saw the cutest fish there...reminded me of you
" No reply.I'm new to the game, so I realize that these feelings I have about being let down are not good for me. It's only been a few hours, but I still get that AFC needy feeling. So I recognize that I need to work on this part of my game. That's fine, I'm working on my inner game all the time.
The question is, where did I go wrong in communicating with her after the club? Should I have called her the next day? Should I have called her instead of texting her? Should I have texted something else? Is it better to make sure she recognizes me and remembers who I am before texting things like I did?
I'm thinking of either trying another cocky/funny "i messaged you first, so you should call me" line or act like she's shit-testing me and completely freeze her out by saying "it's too bad because i thought we connected very well. i just thought you could REMEMBER THE FUN TIME WE HAD...and IMAGINE ENJOYING MORE...but, best to you. you have a good one (ross jeffries)."
Criticism welcomed.