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'ah you're great youre just like a little/big sister!'. I get the funniest reactions from this one haha :] 'do you act like this with everyone?' 'are you always this flirtatious?' 'how do you dress yourself in the morning?' (if she says something dumb) 'man it sucks, i really just couldn't ever see us together' (credit: MM)

If you say you couldn't see yourself with her, and she says something along the lines of 'why?' or ':[' just say, 'well, why do you think we would be good together' or 'what makes you think youre the girl for me?' If she answers this honestly, [u]you have her hooked[/u]. Other lines to use: - Eh, I don't think you could keep up with my lifestyle - I'm not sure if you're [adjective] enough for me - I think we talk too much... what do you think?

1. Text back asap 2. Mimic the amount of time she took to text 3. Take your time texting back (don't stop what you're doing to text back) I see no problem with number one, I mean girls notice you text back pretty quickly but they aren't thinking, even subliminally "omg hes obviously needing me cause he texts back so quick". I mean a lot of people keep their phones in their pocket and just happen to be able to text back easily. With number two, I do see a problem, although the intentions are good. I think a girl will also notice that you're mimicking her time for reply, I haven't had anyone text me back like "uh, why do you text back as fast as I do?" or anything, but i think its sort of plausible in their head that you're purposely doing what you're doing. With number three, well this is the more 'natural game' type I guess. This way it kind of mixes it up so they know you can't just talk all the time, and they'll appreciate the time they get to talk to you Overall, I'd choose 3, unless you're past comfort, then you want 1.

Author:	_Manna_ [ Mon Jan 05, 2009 5:29 pm ]
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Me and a group of friends were hanging out one night, it was about eight people, and there was this new girl who I didn't know that was hanging out with us, and she was pretty cute and my buddy liked her so i thought, hey, I'm gonna snag that haha :] yes, the community gave me that confidence. Anyway, first hour or two I didn't really pay much attention to her, when we were waiting for four people to finish eating i said to my buddy Dan and this girl Lacy, 'alright lets get out of here', and i grabbed the HB's hand and said 'lets go'. We hung out the rest of the night, I pretty much made her do stuff for me (subconsciously) and when i had to leave i did what I learned from some video: I gave her my phone and said "give me your number" She took my phone and tried to hand me her phone, to which i said "Nah, ill just text you later on" (I have a feeling this is DHV, but I can't really explain it). So when me and my buddy Dan left, about thirty minutes later I got a text from her number saying "I just got your number from Lacy instead :]" to which i replied "ok haha cool". To jump out of story mode here, what I think is necessary to achieve through 'text game' is to pretty much DHV the entire time so she begs to be with you. Things I do: - Never reply to anything that doesn't contribute to the conversation (ex. 'haha' or 'haha yeah'). This shows that you aren't really chasing for a conversation, and shows you do not need another girl in your life. - If you're ever going to complement, say shes cute or adorable, not beautiful or amazing or anything like that. - Quick Negs: Code: 'ah you're great youre just like a little/big sister!'. I get the funniest reactions from this one haha :] 'do you act like this with everyone?' 'are you always this flirtatious?' 'how do you dress yourself in the morning?' (if she says something dumb) 'man it sucks, i really just couldn't ever see us together' (credit: MM) - GET HER TO QUALIFY HERSELF! Code: If you say you couldn't see yourself with her, and she says something along the lines of 'why?' or ':[' just say, 'well, why do you think we would be good together' or 'what makes you think youre the girl for me?' If she answers this honestly, [u]you have her hooked[/u]. Other lines to use: - Eh, I don't think you could keep up with my lifestyle - I'm not sure if you're [adjective] enough for me - I think we talk too much... what do you think? - As far as time goes with replying you have three options: Code: 1. Text back asap 2. Mimic the amount of time she took to text 3. Take your time texting back (don't stop what you're doing to text back) I see no problem with number one, I mean girls notice you text back pretty quickly but they aren't thinking, even subliminally "omg hes obviously needing me cause he texts back so quick". I mean a lot of people keep their phones in their pocket and just happen to be able to text back easily. With number two, I do see a problem, although the intentions are good. I think a girl will also notice that you're mimicking her time for reply, I haven't had anyone text me back like "uh, why do you text back as fast as I do?" or anything, but i think its sort of plausible in their head that you're purposely doing what you're doing. With number three, well this is the more 'natural game' type I guess. This way it kind of mixes it up so they know you can't just talk all the time, and they'll appreciate the time they get to talk to you Overall, I'd choose 3, unless you're past comfort, then you want 1. Sorry this is so short, its my first "tutorial" ill try to write on more topics, or get more in detail next time --Manna

Author:	L.H. [ Mon Jan 05, 2009 6:59 pm ]
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Thanks Manna.. Some good points you got there..!

Author:	StreCH [ Tue Jan 06, 2009 1:05 am ]
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u should give some more lol

Author:	_Manna_ [ Tue Jan 06, 2009 3:08 am ]
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If anyone has anything to add, Ill throw it up there (regarding my consent of course) and credit you :]

Author:	_Manna_ [ Tue Dec 01, 2009 3:44 am ]
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11 month bump

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Author:	PrestigeJ [ Tue Dec 01, 2009 5:17 am ]
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Sweet, this is a definite try!

Author:	Magdiel [ Tue Dec 01, 2009 6:01 am ]
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Idk I think it would be better to wait between 3-5 minutes before u send her a txt msg because it's like a rollercoaster for her and shell get anxious just to get your next txt and when she finnaly gets it she feels really good. I mean when your txting a girl and she doesn't respond quick enough what do u start thinking? Don't you start thinking, I wonder if she's going to txt me back? Did she not like what I txted her? What's taking her so long!? And then she txts you back and you feel good right? Now imagine what she feels when she has to wait for your txt.

Author:	_Manna_ [ Tue Dec 01, 2009 4:06 pm ]
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Quote: Idk I think it would be better to wait between 3-5 minutes before u send her a txt msg because it's like a rollercoaster for her and shell get anxious just to get your next txt and when she finnaly gets it she feels really good. I mean when your txting a girl and she doesn't respond quick enough what do u start thinking? Don't you start thinking, I wonder if she's going to txt me back? Did she not like what I txted her? What's taking her so long!? And then she txts you back and you feel good right? Now imagine what she feels when she has to wait for your txt. I'm not trying to argue against you here, but when a girl doesn't text me back very quickly (maybe 3-5 minutes would be okay) I see it as her either being busy or that she's not holding a conversation very well due to time, either way I stop texting her back. I'd just try again later. I think you're getting too far into text messaging. You're assuming she's doing nothing but sitting there waiting for you to text back which, typically, isn't the case. If you don't text back quickly either she'll text you again (in 10-20 minutes usually) or the conversation will just end there.

Author:	Millstone [ Wed Dec 02, 2009 3:18 am ]
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These are good NLP "Stop trying to seduce me, u aren't cute enough! =]" "Hey stop thinking about me" "U remind me of ______ <---(input name of random celebrity) except the complete opposite.. ^_^" "If you wanted to spoil me what would u do? xP" "Wow u texted back quick, not ANOTHER text junky.. =P" The whole point of texting is to place your target in a emotional state; anger,bliss, confused, jealously, loved, passionate, confident, insecure, etc. Never use the entire 160 spaces allowed. Keep the actual conversations for the phone and real life. Texting should be meant for comfort only because you can't really kino via text. 20 Questions is a perfect comfort builder. Never start revealing anything too intimate until after u've slept with her. Remember what you're intent is the whole time so that you're metaframe stays solid. YOu'll be able to just flow if your foundation is chillin. =P

Author:	Grappler000 [ Sun Dec 13, 2009 11:28 pm ]
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so is anyone elses texting game good, and is this good advise? is their other stuff on texting someone can post links too? My texting game is hurting me, i can number close really good now, but my follow up is bad. i build good attraction, but when its day game u can only go so far. Need help with my texting game. it suck not being able to do kino or look confident. i'm 21 so keep that in mind.

Author:	mcq [ Sun Dec 13, 2009 11:42 pm ]
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good stuff right here. thanks.

Author:	TheDoc [ Thu Dec 17, 2009 5:40 am ]
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I'd add a note of caution to this awesome post. Make sure to remember that negs can come off totally different than you intended. Through texts, it's very easy to miscommunicate. If she doesn't get your tone, she could end up thinking you're a real ass. An easy way to help avoid this is adding a "haha" or an "lol"...you just can't add it to everything you know? lol -that's my attempt at humor (it's late) No matter what, read what you write before you send it, and make a conscious effort to look at it from her point of view.

Author:	_Manna_ [ Thu Dec 17, 2009 5:47 am ]
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Quote: I'd add a note of caution to this awesome post. Make sure to remember that negs can come off totally different than you intended. Through texts, it's very easy to miscommunicate. If she doesn't get your tone, she could end up thinking you're a real ass. An easy way to help avoid this is adding a "haha" or an "lol"...you just can't add it to everything you know? lol -that's my attempt at humor (it's late) No matter what, read what you write before you send it, and make a conscious effort to look at it from her point of view. Just due to the fact that I kid around a lot through text, I tend to start off texts with hahah, so they know im joking. I'm not sure if this is true but someone told me about the placement of the laughter in a text has importance... here's what they told me: If you put it at the beginning, it means what you're about to say is funny, or that you're laughing at what they said, youre in a good mood. If you put it after the text, you're laughing at yourself or pretty much saying "thats funny, right?". Idk, i just tend to put it at the beginning by habit.

Author:	TheDoc [ Thu Dec 17, 2009 5:54 am ]
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I've never noticed the difference. Let me see if I can come up with an example that will change the meaning or tone of the text.... Here's one: I was texting with a girl I hook up with, we were at a party together and she saw me making out with a "not so hot babe" She told me she knew I'd regret it, but she let me do it anyway. I could either reply with "I hate you" or "wow I hate you lol" I feel like it actually changes the tone on the receiving end. It leaves no doubt that I'm joking with her. If she didn't know me very well, she could receive that message and think I mean something that I don't. Make any sense?

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Author:	_Manna_ [ Thu Dec 17, 2009 6:00 am ]
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Quote: I feel like it actually changes the tone on the receiving end. It leaves no doubt that I'm joking with her. If she didn't know me very well, she could receive that message and think I mean something that I don't. Make any sense? yeah that makes complete sense, or at least i think i understand what you're saying.. But now i dont exactly get what you're asking :]