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Author:  thirdchance57 [ Tue Sep 30, 2008 5:43 am ]
Post subject:  i'm a noob to the pua community
hello,
i # closed a hb8 at the bar. got some good ioi's :) .

called her the next day... i droped an anchor, gave her a dhv story... and then told her i was late for a 7:30 poker game. 8)

waited for 1 day and she didnt call. :?
so i called her again ...no answer and i didnt leave a message.
10 min later she TXT "hey i noticed u called can i call u later"

i didnt respond

2 hr go by she TXT "Hey how was your poker game? Did u wim big"

i respond with an anchor "lost 15. i was too busy thinking about our conversation infront of the giant fan"

10:35 pm she responded "lol! :D ya nothing like shoutn at sumone ur standn right next 2 cause it was so loud!"

10:40 pm I respond "you might not believe this but im drinking a glass of cristal" ..... i really was

no responce

what now? i'd like to ask her to join my day and go shopping with me at the mall sometime this week... or go play disk golf with us this weekend ... or do something with me.

thanks
Author:  sorin [ Tue Sep 30, 2008 8:18 am ]
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i'd call her again....

and get to know her a little...

what she does, where she hangs out... what sort of a person she is... and then when you have some info about what she's like...

then invite her to something that she'd find interesting... :)

if she's playful invite her to an ice-cream in the park... bla bla

the idea is not the location but the rapport you estabilish with her... connect to her on the phone so that you will reconnect when you meet for a date...
Author:  thirdchance57 [ Tue Sep 30, 2008 10:34 pm ]
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what is the best way to build rapport?
maybe ask questions about her? or get her talking about herself?
Author:  sorin [ Thu Oct 02, 2008 9:25 am ]
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the best way to establish rapport is this...

step 1:
ask her about what she does...

example:
her: i'm a doctor

step 2:
try to find deeper information about her such as her feelings as her values based on the job she has chosen

example:
you: why did you choose this job? what do you like or dislike about it?

here you find out more about her... pay attention to the words she uses and what she likes and don't likes.... what she likes will let you know what her values are... and what she doesn't like will let you know, what things come agains her values...

then connect on these values...

tell a story of when you had the same value or the same feeling... let her know you have values and feelings in common by example...

this connecting and bonding is very profound :) ... and leads the way to the physical part as well...

have fun! :)
Author:  Sexcellent [ Thu Oct 02, 2008 8:09 pm ]
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i'd start using txt with her rather than calling. its obvious that this girl needs more comfort with before she is ready to talk on the phone with you. its retarded, but thats the way girls are nowadays.

when she says she'll call, and then sends a warm text, it means "hey i really wanna talk to you, but i'm just not comfortable enough to call"

try to build some more rapport with txts before calling again.

at this point, i think she hasn't responded because she just doesn't know how to respond to your last txt. that happens sometimes. freeze her out for a day or so, and then send a nice opening text that does encourage a response. once she is more comfortable with texting you, she will be ready for a call.
Author:  thirdchance57 [ Sun Oct 05, 2008 5:11 pm ]
Post subject: 
this girl's comfort levels are fucked up. strong strong lmr
since my last post:
she txt mehow was your day
i respondvery very good, how was yours?
she txt good just looking a teeth all day

i call her drop some an anchor and ask tell her im going shopping and she should come

well she came shopping with me and it was good. i k-close her in about 1 hour at the mall. 8) Then, we drive around and burn some gas and went and played pool at my sisters house more kissing touching. Finally, drop her off at her grandma's house cuz she has to work in the morning.

day2, i call and we agree i should come to her house. she wont kiss me at first. she is playing hard to get... i played the guitar and this softened her up a bit. now, the lmr kicks in i cant get her bra off and i cant get down her pants.
:roll: well since im a noob i was trying to be presistant and i didnt freeze her out. it was still very fun cuz she is so hot, but i didnt get anywhere.

day3, i teach her how to play racket ball and play her personal trainer at the gym. she says "i've never had this much fun playing a sport" everything is going very well, kissing, touching. Then, we go back to her place we're both very hot cuz our hormones are kicking in after the workout. but all i get is lmr slept next to her all night couldn get her bra off nor get down her pants. :roll: and i didnt freeze her out. but i didnt show any anger/furstration and i was actually enjoying her just the way she was. :)

i left the next morning (saturday) at 7:00 am for work and didnt say bye or wake her up. got on the internet and read about "freeze out" so i froze her out all day.
i think i screwed up, she already thinks i'm a player.
she txt me @ 10:47pm hey hows was the game? (she assumed i was playing my saturday night poker)...i'm at guitars(a local club) was my friend Stephanie"
i txt "cool, have fun"
this morning i txt her "racketball?"

no reply
Author:  sorin [ Mon Oct 06, 2008 7:36 am ]
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playing sports with her is fine...

kino-ing her is fine...

doing everything you did is fine actually...

but... have you had a decent 1 hour conversation with her where you opened up and told her who you are as a person and you're feelings and views about life?

have you connected to her on that deeper level?

if you did you'd be fucking her now :)

good luck!
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