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Author:  <Avesta> [ Thu Apr 10, 2008 5:44 pm ]
Post subject:  Flaky girl
A girl I gamed before the Easter break has returned from her home in Wales to University in my city for her final semester. I wrote her off initially because she was the flaky type. She failed to pick up my call a few weeks back and the texts dwindled. Couldn't be bothered nursing the contact so moved on to gaming girls closer to home.

She's back and text me the other night, asking me if I was out that night. Unfortunately I wasn't. I text her back saying that I was not long back from London visiting friends and that I wasn't venturing anywhere, but that I was making plans for the following night instead. No questions asked.

I went out the following night, called her, but she failed to answer. I text negged her a few hours later (very playful and friendly) and then decided to throw in the towel. However, she text me the following day explaining that she's been far too busy preparing for an exhibition, which is to take place next week. She has invited me to come along however. I've yet to respond.

I plan to go to the exhibition, but the girl is hard to game because she doesn't pick up the phone (albeit I've only called twice in a month). I refuse to be a monkey by making needy attempts to get her on the phone. She's prone to the text message freeze out as well.

Anyone had a similar experience? I'm thinking whether she's shy about talking on the phone or just fucking around.
Author:  Student X [ Thu Apr 10, 2008 7:28 pm ]
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If shes not making contact, shes not making/returning contact for a reason, I'd suggest move on if it continues like this, however if she is shy then perhaps she is just nervous, either way, the fact that she is far away makes it so much more difficult anyway.

YOU! are the prize.

Student X...
Author:  <Avesta> [ Thu Apr 10, 2008 8:59 pm ]
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She's back at university in my city now so it will be easier to game. She's not important to me. I have plans of my own elsewhere, but it'll be good to get to know her..intimately :D. She re-intiated the contact, so she's obviously still in a state of attraction...or just likes to fuck around (but she doesn't seem the type to fuck around). She's young and doesn't know me a whole lot, and may feel that her comfort zone is through text messages. I've ran good text game on her. She's tried to freeze me out but I've been playful and interesting, yet not committing myself (ie pushing for a meet or asking her questions so that she can control the freeze out time).

We shall see.
Author:  LexVerAeq [ Sat Apr 12, 2008 6:54 am ]
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if i were you... id tell her that i respesct her not texting or calling me back because some people need their space... then id tell her that im no longer going to speak to her unless she sees your in person because you dont want to distract her from her studies. then give her a little schedule of where she can expect you on which days...

make her come to you! rememeber... we are the prize!


-Lex

I refuse to lose anymore of my dignity to women... not a single one is worth it
Author:  AlphaX [ Sun Apr 13, 2008 2:02 pm ]
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if i were you... id tell her that i respesct her not texting or calling me back because some people need their space... then id tell her that im no longer going to speak to her unless she sees your in person because you dont want to distract her from her studies. then give her a little schedule of where she can expect you on which days...
Hmm, i dont know. Sounds a lil needy to me if not done right.

Dont you guys have common friends or so, this would be an access to an "accidental" meeting with her and gives you opportunity to run more game. I tried this text-game but it's too exhaustingly, brainlessly long and usually not worth the effort. I need to personally game to have success, or even just fun. The game is about fun, so I stop playing if i see too little fun on the way. In the way lies the illumination, not in the destination.
Author:  PUA Kenny [ Mon Apr 28, 2008 10:23 pm ]
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Wow, I've had that happened to me a lot of fuccing times!!! I had a hb7 flake on me after telling me she's near by to the club that we were supposed to go to. I was out side lingering around like a clown waiting on this witch and she knew she wasnt going to show up at all!!!
Author:  Serai [ Tue Apr 29, 2008 9:53 pm ]
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I hate to hijack this thread, but I have a very similar problem to several of the people in this forum area.

Essentially, I met a girl on Saturday night, she gave me her number +several hours dancing, looking in each others eyes, kissing, strong connection. I gave her a slightly altered name cus my name is hard to explain in a loud room. I called her Tuesday and she picks up fast and we have a nice conversation. I didnt catch her name so I asked her for her name 'so i could add her on Facebook'. She gave it, and after about 3 minutes we hung up, she said call me again. I add her on Facebook (my name is different on there from what I;ve told her so far).

On Thursday I call, no response. I call on Friday, telling myself thats not needy cus she likes me loads, but no response. So I'm at a total loss.

I look up some stuff on the internet, and create what I think is a perfect Facebook message - the right combination of confidence, C&F and challenge:

Hey HB8,

playing hard to get already?!

You've taken your first bite from the jam doughnut, surely you want to reach the delicious gooey centre!

Was planning to organise a meeting one of these weekends, give me a shout if you're still interested :)

Serai


Sent this on Sunday afternoon, and haven't made another move since. I feel like this message is so good, if she doesn't reply she has no sense of humour.

So, any guidance on what to do/what I did wrong? I'm concerned it might be my Facebook profile giving a bad impression (NOTHING dodgy, maybe a bit immature). I don't think i look ugly enough on the profile to make her spurn me tbh.

Im 18, attending university in a few months, as is she.

I've had a look around this forum already and a lot of similar stuff has happened to others, which lowers my concern. The blank text message would have been an alternate, maybe better approach to my FB message.

"I hope me being on your mind hasn't been too much of a distraction. Where are you taking me (this/next week/weekend)" is too needy for me now imo,

"Stop thinking about me and pay attention at school'' is again too desperate imo.

"stop thinking about me and pay attention in class!" at 11.20am when she's been bored for 3 hours in class already dying to get out of class and take a lunch break - maybe a good option
Author:  jok3rzwild [ Wed Apr 30, 2008 12:53 am ]
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Haven't read any of the replies.

Yet this stood out like a sore THUMB!

Going to the Exhibition when she invited, isn't that DLV?! (please correct me if I'm wrong, I'm still learning)

It's like no matter if shes far or close, she is playing the game in her court, by only communicating with u when she wants to, NOT when ur making ur attempts.

Dang, the psychology that is going on between u 2. Her playing hard to get, really makes u want her even more huh? lol

Time to switch roles :lol:
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