And about some pretty personal things too.

I was expecting something totally different. Not sure where you see "tease" in all this.
I know most guys do victory dances whenever that occurs and see it as a win, but in reality, it just isn't. Having her spew personal shit to you isn't a sign of her wanting to fuck you, it's a sign of her opening up to you.

You know what a person you start opening up to is called? It's called a friend.
You know what a person you've shared intimacy with and opened up to is called? It's called a lover.

Some women just love the attention. And the most effective way of seeing whether she's interested in more than just having her ego stroked over text is asking her out.

Now you gave very few details for a more accurate answer, as in how long have you known each other, how long have you been talking, how you met, did you ever meet face to face, etc. But generally speaking, if she's flaking she's not interested.

But generally speaking, if she's flaking she's not interested.

Uh, I hate to break it to you.
But many women are big texters. And yes, they'll flirt, they'll tell you personal information, they'll tease, they'll mislead you. She's not necessarily screaming, "I want to bone you," but it's these subtle ways that men misinterpret.

I say this because I'm a woman and I've done this in my younger years. For attention. Out of boredom. Etc.

So, my best advice to you is this: If you keep doing this penpal thing with her and it doesn't lead you to anywhere, don't stick around unless you just want to be friends and nothing more. This is the problem lots of guys have. Even when the girl tells them straight up she wants only friendship, guys still have hope. Don't.

Just because she's made a sex joke doesn't mean she wants to have sex with you. Only proof would be actual intimacy.

LMAO...you are hurting the feelings of half of the guys that join the forum. Now get ready to answer how they can turn it around because they still have hope.

I was expecting something totally different. Not sure where you see "tease" in all this.
I know most guys do victory dances whenever that occurs and see it as a win, but in reality, it just isn't. Having her spew personal shit to you isn't a sign of her wanting to fuck you, it's a sign of her opening up to you.

You know what a person you start opening up to is called? It's called a friend.
You know what a person you've shared intimacy with and opened up to is called? It's called a lover.

Some women just love the attention. And the most effective way of seeing whether she's interested in more than just having her ego stroked over text is asking her out.

Now you gave very few details for a more accurate answer, as in how long have you known each other, how long have you been talking, how you met, did you ever meet face to face, etc. But generally speaking, if she's flaking she's not interested.

I did actually meet up with her this afternoon. Fair play, sounds like she's been kind of ill. Oh we just hung out and talked away when we went hiking, the same kind of thing happened today too. I seem to be overthinking this situation way too much, I felt like I was struggling to escalate with her again and I still haven't kissed her.

I did actually meet up with her this afternoon. Fair play, sounds like she's been kind of ill. Oh we just hung out and talked away when we went hiking, the same kind of thing happened today too. I seem to be overthinking this situation way too much, I felt like I was struggling to escalate with her again and I still haven't kissed her.

Typical case of:

Not prepared to make the move

Playing not to lose, instead of playing to win. You probably have one chance left to man up

Maybe she's into you but not THAT into you. There are plenty of women that jump a man's bones, and plenty that don't.