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How do you continue after a semi-flake of sorts with a girl that I have F-closed

I'm gonna keep it short and just write the gist of the texts.

-Texted this girl to set up plans for another date.

-She declined saying she already had plans that day. She was sorry but did not give a counter offer

- I didnt answer that

- She texted the next day saying she remembered her plans wrongly and actually can hang out, if I was still up for it.

- I answered that I already had plans but she could come over in the evening

- She said maybe she shoul've made other plans then if im busy

- I reinstated that I have plans she can come over after in the evening

- She said that she might just do that

- I said text me when your on the way

She did not come over and did not text. It might have been a shit-test to see if I would text her something like "did u wanna hang out today?? ". She's been throwing them on me ever since our last meeting (where she seemed very into me).

Should I wait for her to text me or should I start a convo with her? I dont mind that she didnt came over but I feel like she should be the one to initiate now, or am I being too "gamey" ?

Author:	kball [ Mon Feb 22, 2016 9:12 am ]
Post subject:	How to handle flake?
How do you continue after a semi-flake of sorts with a girl that I have F-closed I'm gonna keep it short and just write the gist of the texts. -Texted this girl to set up plans for another date. -She declined saying she already had plans that day. She was sorry but did not give a counter offer - I didnt answer that - She texted the next day saying she remembered her plans wrongly and actually can hang out, if I was still up for it. - I answered that I already had plans but she could come over in the evening - She said maybe she shoul've made other plans then if im busy - I reinstated that I have plans she can come over after in the evening - She said that she might just do that - I said text me when your on the way She did not come over and did not text. It might have been a shit-test to see if I would text her something like "did u wanna hang out today?? ". She's been throwing them on me ever since our last meeting (where she seemed very into me). Should I wait for her to text me or should I start a convo with her? I dont mind that she didnt came over but I feel like she should be the one to initiate now, or am I being too "gamey" ?

Author:	masterm1ne [ Mon Feb 22, 2016 2:19 pm ]
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Call the police, tell them she flaked on you as this against the law of getting laid. They will arrest her and bring her to your doorstep in handcuffs so that you may do what you want with her. I personally wouldn't message her again. Being able to show you are unaffected is sexy. I would allow you 1 call, don't leave a message if she doesn't answer, a day or so later. Text her again to hang out whenever you can, and act like she never stood you up. You cross the line when you start getting upset she flaked.

Author:	Heywood Jablowme [ Mon Feb 22, 2016 4:05 pm ]
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A woman that WANTS to hang out with you - will.

Author:	Johnny Utah [ Sat May 14, 2016 10:04 am ]
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I just flake right back. While you are on the phone, act like you got a sudden call and act surprised and busy, then tell her you will have to call her back later, then never call. Maybe "accidentally" quietly mumble something like "Oh, it is (insert female name here) calling." If you are contacting her via email only then just set up a date and time to meet her and flake. If she flakes, you will never know. If she contacts you later asking where you were, just say you forgot. This behavior works for me. Being a nice, needy guy never works. If you meet enough women, you might be juggling so many women, you will have to flake on them haha.

Author:	Dragula [ Sat May 14, 2016 11:31 am ]
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Be mind blowing in bed Best anti flake strategy there is

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Author:	GenesisPUA [ Sat May 14, 2016 2:03 pm ]
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You handle a flake by not reacting to her flakiness. You don't invest in a girl you already f-closed. The dynamics usually changes after you f-close a girl. She should be the one re-initiating and wanting to meet again not the other way round.

Author:	kidfromcro [ Sat May 14, 2016 5:59 pm ]
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f close another girl,if she text you-f 2,if not,there is another one

Author:	luckyyu2004 [ Mon May 16, 2016 9:49 pm ]
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Quote: How do you continue after a semi-flake of sorts with a girl that I have F-closed I'm gonna keep it short and just write the gist of the texts. -Texted this girl to set up plans for another date. -She declined saying she already had plans that day. She was sorry but did not give a counter offer - I didnt answer that - She texted the next day saying she remembered her plans wrongly and actually can hang out, if I was still up for it. - I answered that I already had plans but she could come over in the evening - She said maybe she shoul've made other plans then if im busy - I reinstated that I have plans she can come over after in the evening - She said that she might just do that - I said text me when your on the way She did not come over and did not text. It might have been a shit-test to see if I would text her something like "did u wanna hang out today?? ". She's been throwing them on me ever since our last meeting (where she seemed very into me). Should I wait for her to text me or should I start a convo with her? I dont mind that she didnt came over but I feel like she should be the one to initiate now, or am I being too "gamey" ? Other people already cover all the points. move onto the next girl and get better in bed. It is pointless putting more time with this girl.

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