No. Keep your hands to yourself. It's only proper.

Signed,

OceanX

December 7, 1953

P.S.

Just busting your balls bro

Sooner the better.

But you have to give her the sex on the 12th date though

Wayyy too soon.

You need to take her on at least three dates and buy her some chocolates before you're trying to pull this hardcore sort of shit off.

U cray cray.

why the 12th!!!

Because on Dates 1 through 11 you are building Z-Phase Comfort Attraction. Don't forget to sprinkle your negs in at the appropriate times!

J/k man we're just fucking with you.

Just go out and have fun, and escalate appropriately. When a girl is into you she wants to kiss you more likely than not. You can do this boss.

Allot people will cut you flack for not kissing a girl on a first date. It's fine if you're not comfortable as well. Which is something you need to factor in. Don't pressure yourself if it's going to be an awkward kiss and do it for the sake of doing it. Do it if you want to an it's an extension of the romantic vibe. But certainly don't let it go past a second date without kissing her and establishing that Man to Woman Vibe.

A first date can often be written off as a "feeler" date where you're getting the vibe for each other. But if she comes back for a second date. You obviously like each other and then there should be no excuses. Either shit or get off the pot then as you know it's on. I mean you can go from first date of not kissing her. To second date making out with her and third date sleeping with her. That still seems like an okay progression, rather than stumbling your way through an awkward first kiss. Looking needy because you did for the sake of doing it. And she reads that and doesn't want to come back since you seem so outcome dependant. And you didn't even enjoy that kiss that much since it was out of context. And you spend the next week jerking off without paying attention to what you want and expressing yourself versus following some advice you feel you "should" do. Obviously it's more efficient too do things quicker. But not a big deal if you're at least progressing well romantically and you're getting there without it being platonic. Particularly if she is a shy girl might take a little more work like this.