Hi Guys
Ill try be as brief as i can but need some brotherly advice...
On a work night out a female co worker and mentioned 1)she had been on a date with a guy who worked there the year before, 2) told him that she fancied me and he tried grass cutting me (surprise the guy is a douche)
Anyway... she was saying how she couldnt really trust me as she thought i was a bit of a player/jack the lad. In the drunken heat of the moment we made out and said we would go on a date. we were both at our places and carried on texting and she made similar comments again about me being a player and trust issues. i said we should meet up the next day
Next day we were both too hung over to meet so i suggested we leave it until we both sober/not tired and she agreed. she said she was going out again that night and not heard back from her.
However.... the interesting thing that i couldnt believe was a coincidence was her profile pic was the same as a girl id been messaging on tinder nearly a year ago. The tinder girl looked hot and i got her number and was messaging but got no where. I never realised it was the same girl until after the night we made out and saw her profile pic.
So some advice please guys... Is the trust thing shes mentioning a shit test? I mean she speaking freely about her date with XXXX but says im a player in her eyes? Could she have recognised me from the tinder profile? (her pics and her at work look very different, but now i can see its the same person
)Or is she just a girl who has been hurt before and has trust issues?
I tend to over think the situation so any outside advice is appreciated.
Thanks