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Author:  Portugal.Thy.Man [ Thu Oct 15, 2015 4:17 pm ]
Post subject:  2nd date - logistics are screwing me over!
What up guys! I'm trying to set up a nice 2nd date with this cute girl who I share some classes with, but I'm having some logistic problems to get it going smoothly.

First off, a bit of a background: before I even got her number, one day when we were finishing class, I said "hey, let's have some coffee, I know a place", and she agreed. Now, even though there was no planning whatsoever, I still consider that a date. Found out a lot of stuff about her, had some nice kino going on, but didn't even attempt to k-close. Only got her number at the end.

So now I'm aiming for a nice date that hopefully includes a k-close (would like to f-close already, but I think in this situation I should have at least one more date).

Situation:

Was thinking of a coffee + clothing shopping + dinner + movie at home kind of date, but I think that's overly ambitious... Sunday would be a nice day, but apparently it might be raining, so it might not happen at all. On the other hand, I have a class with her tomorrow (Friday), I could ask if she had plans for the evening and just ask if she wants to join me (or maybe ask tonight even?)... problem with this: I know she's going on this field trip on Saturday, and she has to wake up early – so naturally, that would serve as her excuse to not come to my place at night or to end the date early.

And so I'm kinda lost here... should I ask her if tomorrow's good, and if she says no, postpone for Sunday? Or maybe even split the date between the two days? I really don't know... That's why I've come to ask for advice. Main objective = k-close, but f-close would be awesome


Cheers mates!
Author:  Dragula [ Thu Oct 15, 2015 4:59 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: 2nd date - logistics are screwing me over!
Meet her ASAP, preferably an evening date with alcohol

(I don't even entertain coffee dates, i would rather ditch the girl)

Forget about being selfless for her following day, it's your job to turn her on in the moment and get back to your place at that moment.

Aim for the sex, not the kiss. If you're gonna fall short of a goal, it may aswell be the bigger goal. The kiss will be more easier since the pressure is more on the fucky fucky

If it rains? They have an invention called an 'umbrella' - If a girl uses that as excuse to not meet, then she isn't that interested to start with. Stop overthinking and have fun meeting her. It's like you're creating obstacles hypothetically.

Forget about the date till you're getting a shower and getting ready for it. It's just a girl who eats, sleeps and shits like anybody else.
Author:  Portugal.Thy.Man [ Mon Oct 19, 2015 7:41 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: 2nd date - logistics are screwing me over!
Quote:
Aim for the sex, not the kiss. If you're gonna fall short of a goal, it may aswell be the bigger goal. The kiss will be more easier since the pressure is more on the fucky fucky
Quality advice right here mate. Thanks.

Turns out it turned out completely different. No date on that day, but today I did take her somewhere and ended up getting the k-close.
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