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| Author: | Blacksky [ Wed Jul 15, 2015 10:29 am ] |
| Post subject: | Is their hope of turning this around ? |
Met this girl a couple of weeks ago and we have kept in contact since - she agreed to come over to my place last Sunday however this did not happen as I was busy that day. When she agreed to come over she wrote something like "theirs no hanky panky though". To give you a idea of our interactions and more of a educated guess of how she feels heres some basics on our interactions - Since meeting her their have probably been between 50 - 100 messages - Most conversation are started by me however she often asks questions in return. - Once I asked her if she wanted to meet up - she called pretty promptly (however I did not answer as I was playing golf). - On meeting her she was allowing me to put my arm around her for the most of the night but on the way home as she was getting sleepy she was telling me to stop - however a few hours later messaged me saying she hoped she didn't offend me. - Last Saturday calls me at 1:30 a.m. - a unusual time to call somebody unless you are interested in them. - Recently broken up from her relationship On 3 occasions in the past I have had sex with females who had previously said - "You aren't going to have sex with me" Is their any hope with chick or just forget her and move on (not interested in being friends with her really). If their is hope how would you go about playing this one out ? |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Wed Jul 15, 2015 11:49 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is their hope of turning this around ? |
The girl wants to meet you. I don't see why you're thinking the worst "I'm not going to have sex with you" usually means it's a good thing as you mentioned Netflix.Red wine. Escalate. Enjoy the sex. |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Wed Jul 15, 2015 3:07 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is their hope of turning this around ? |
Bro.. what? You don't listen to a womans words, you watch what she does. Do you know how many fewer lays everyone on this site would have if they took a woman word for it when she said she wasn't going to sleep with them? Thats her instant defense mechanism, its so you don't think she's a whore and go all cave man from the moment she walks through the door. You're fine man. She's not stupid, if she's coming to your house she has an idea of what could happen, and if she's coming despite that, then she is somewhat open to the possibility. YOU just have to make it happen. |
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| Author: | Blacksky [ Wed Jul 15, 2015 8:07 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is their hope of turning this around ? |
Thanks for your reply lads. I just re-read the post and saw that I did not mention when she agreed to come over she said something like "I have a friend staying with me - can she come as well ? - you know theirs no hanky panky" That friend bit kind of put me off. |
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| Author: | JackZero [ Wed Jul 15, 2015 8:22 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is their hope of turning this around ? |
Quote: Thanks for your reply lads. I just re-read the post and saw that I did not mention when she agreed to come over she said something like "I have a friend staying with me - can she come as well ? - you know theirs no hanky panky" That was your moment to show your assertiveness and reject that idea. Tell her that you guys can do your thing when her friend isn't around.
That friend bit kind of put me off. |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Wed Jul 15, 2015 8:24 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is their hope of turning this around ? |
Quote: Thanks for your reply lads. I just re-read the post and saw that I did not mention when she agreed to come over she said something like "I have a friend staying with me - can she come as well ? - you know theirs no hanky panky"
That friend bit kind of put me off. 3some! Just kidding, in that case, I would probably reschedule for a one on one meeting. But that's just me. Just seems a bit childish of her to me |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Wed Jul 15, 2015 8:38 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is their hope of turning this around ? |
Quote: "I have a friend staying with me - can she come as well ? - you know theirs no hanky panky"
Sounds like a challenge. Two chicks instead of one? I could see how this might repulse some; but when you think like a seducer this is more of an opportunity than anything.
That friend bit kind of put me off. |
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| Author: | Blacksky [ Thu Jul 16, 2015 9:50 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is their hope of turning this around ? |
Quote: Quote: Thanks for your reply lads. I just re-read the post and saw that I did not mention when she agreed to come over she said something like "I have a friend staying with me - can she come as well ? - you know theirs no hanky panky"
That friend bit kind of put me off. 3some! Just kidding, in that case, I would probably reschedule for a one on one meeting. But that's just me. Just seems a bit childish of her to me Yeah does seem to have some child like traits about her now that I think about it. Calls me and asks me to call her back and when I do she says - oh too late now i can;t be bothered talking or - calls me 1:30 am in the morning and then doen;st respond to two texts I had sent her after that. Can't be bothered with her any longer. |
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| Author: | HugoMoreno [ Thu Jul 16, 2015 6:48 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is their hope of turning this around ? |
If she wants to "come over" then she definitely open to having sex or else she wouldn't accept the offer. the whole "no sex" thing is for the girl not to feel slutty by going to your place |
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