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Author:  coolguy2013 [ Thu Jun 18, 2015 4:58 am ]
Post subject:  Is she shit testing me by offering to pay for drinks?
Went out with a girl last week and it seemed like it went well. We were both happy and had tons to talk about, and I suspect she likes me.

I asked her to hang out this Thursday and she said she was super busy, but suggested that we meet on Friday instead, and said "if we can do that instead, I promise to buy you a drink." I responded with a smiley and confirmed the plan. Talking to her again today, she mentioned she is excited about Friday and said "remember, drink on me."

What would be the ideal response? I may be overthinking this, but is this:
a) a shit test to see if I would be an alpha and say "sure, if you insist!" or "nooo sweetheart, I got you"
b) a gentle way of sending me to the friendzone by reminding me that since I paid last time, it's her turn now like friends do
c) ???
Author:  JackZero [ Thu Jun 18, 2015 5:12 am ]
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You can tell her okay. If you feel you must make a response about the drinks, just tell her you don't drink the cheap stuff.

Doesn't seem like a test. If it is, take your free drink and enjoy it because she's not worth it if she's testing you.
Author:  Dragula [ Thu Jun 18, 2015 5:45 am ]
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It's a flake


Joking, enjoy the sex in Friday
Author:  R.C [ Thu Jun 18, 2015 5:52 am ]
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What. The. Fuck

So let me get this straight. You have a girl so blatantly interested in you that she offers a reschedule, adds a bonus to it so you'd be more inclined to accept, reminds you of it and how excited she is and yet somehow, somehow you manage to think "oh fuck Im getting friendzoned"?

This girl may have to provide you with laser guidance in between her legs if you keep being so oblivious bro.
Author:  coolguy2013 [ Thu Jun 18, 2015 5:54 am ]
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Quote:
What. The. Fuck

So let me get this straight. You have a girl so blatantly interested in you that she offers a reschedule, adds a bonus to it so you'd be more inclined to accept, reminds you of it and how excited she is and yet somehow, somehow you manage to think "oh fuck Im getting friendzoned"?

Do you need landing lights pointing you in the right direction?
LOLL good point man. I didn't mean to be paranoid, as I also thought about 95% that's what's going on. Just wanted to confirm with the pros here. Thanks for that confirmation. 8)
Author:  R.C [ Thu Jun 18, 2015 6:12 am ]
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You're doing fine dude. Enjoy the date.
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Thu Jun 18, 2015 5:31 pm ]
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You'll be back posting "She texted me this, she texted me that and then we went out and she wasn't interested" if you keep this attitude up. R.C. pretty much made it plain.

Jesus dude...

What more could you want
Author:  Monsignor Crisanto [ Sat Jun 20, 2015 4:25 am ]
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Jesus Fucking Christ.

When a woman spends her money on you and generally does nice things for you, she wants to ride your cock.
Author:  detox75 [ Sat Jun 20, 2015 4:39 am ]
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act like shit like that happens to you all the time and is semi-expected, then take the drink
Author:  HugoMoreno [ Thu Jul 16, 2015 7:13 pm ]
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Quote:
a) a shit test to see if I would be an alpha and say "sure, if you insist!" or "nooo sweetheart, I got you"
b) a gentle way of sending me to the friendzone by reminding me that since I paid last time, it's her turn now like friends do
c) ???
A) Yes it's a shit test
B) It's her way to see how you respond to getting catered to, only "high valued" men are use to this and by the way you act she will know if you're use to this or not
C) I would say something like "OK cool, I wouldn't expect anything less"

It shows I'm use to women catering to me since I'm so high valued
Author:  oceanx [ Thu Jul 16, 2015 9:53 pm ]
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Just accept the drink and go with the flow. Don't over-do it by making it overly blatant that you get this kind of SPAM all the time.
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