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| Author: | Basic fucking idiot [ Tue Jun 09, 2015 9:10 pm ] |
| Post subject: | dealing with psycho |
So this girl was obsessed with a guy who rejected her . Since then she's been traumatized by him and avoids himat all costs . Side effects include ignoring all comitments with future men : anything from a date to a kiss . All men easilly scare her now . I don't know whether I should post this on a psychology forum or not  but hey all suggestions are appreciated .
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| Author: | CharlesFinley [ Tue Jun 09, 2015 9:35 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: dealing with psycho |
You want to try and sleep with this girl? I don't understand what you're asking. |
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| Author: | JackZero [ Tue Jun 09, 2015 9:37 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: dealing with psycho |
So your question is...? Either way, whatever the question is..it shouldn't be "how can I get with this psycho girl?" |
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| Author: | Basic fucking idiot [ Tue Jun 09, 2015 9:41 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: dealing with psycho |
well yeah basically I want to break her psychotic barrier and do whatever with her ( date her , sleep with her ) |
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| Author: | CharlesFinley [ Tue Jun 09, 2015 9:43 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: dealing with psycho |
So she went nuts after a simple rejection and you think getting involved with her is the way to go? I'd re-evaluate that, personally... But it's your life. I don't know what to really tell you without more detail. How do you know her, what's your current status, do you share a social circle, similar interests, etc... Need something to hook onto to be able to try and help. Best advice: Wrap your willy up. You don't want to knock up a nut job... |
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| Author: | Basic fucking idiot [ Tue Jun 09, 2015 9:49 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: dealing with psycho |
well we know each other from school , we are friends . we text a lot . we barely go out unless she's sure it isn't a "date " . We run a lana del rey fan account together on instagram she likes her a lot .... a lot ( psycho fan ) . |
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| Author: | CharlesFinley [ Tue Jun 09, 2015 9:58 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: dealing with psycho |
You're young, aren't you? Just how young? I would advise, again, to not pursue this. But if you're going to - and she doesn't like dates, don't make them dates. Just escalate. Start with innocent light touching, move to hand on the small of her back, leading her, hand on arm, etc... Then move to hand on leg, and keep going. Google "Vin DiCarlo Escalation Ladder". See how far you can get. Maybe another contributor can think of a better way to do it... I can't! |
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| Author: | Basic fucking idiot [ Tue Jun 09, 2015 10:06 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: dealing with psycho |
I know the escalation ladder . we touch frequently no problem with kino . it's just that in her head she rejects the sexual ideas I try to throw at her . touching her arms , her legs , our heads touch frequently , we touch each other when we sit down next to each other but the fought of a kiss or anything similar would definitly make things horrible . I am 18. Push pulls and negs rarely work on this one . |
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| Author: | CharlesFinley [ Tue Jun 09, 2015 10:07 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: dealing with psycho |
Quote: I know the escalation ladder . we touch frequently no problem with kino . it's just that in her head she rejects the sexual ideas I try to throw at her . touching her arms , her legs , our heads touch frequently , we touch each other when we sit down next to each other but the fought of a kiss or anything similar would definitly make things horrible . I am 18
Ok dude -- so all of this... All of what you wrote here: a big flashing red sign telling you to focus on other girls until she's ready to date someone.
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| Author: | Basic fucking idiot [ Tue Jun 09, 2015 10:10 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: dealing with psycho |
great , how do I make that someone me ? |
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| Author: | CharlesFinley [ Tue Jun 09, 2015 10:14 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: dealing with psycho |
Quote: great , how do I make that someone me ?
You're not listening. She isn't dating anyone and doesn't want to. So go focus on others. Is this pickup or awkward teenager puppy love? Pickup is about abundance - not one girl you're not gonna get. Other girls. Go find some. You'll get practice, you'll get lucky, and then she may get jealous and be approachable later. It's win-win. Still going to plow ahead with crazy? Maybe another contributor will tell you what you'd like to hear. I only do honesty. |
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| Author: | Basic fucking idiot [ Tue Jun 09, 2015 10:17 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: dealing with psycho |
that was harsh You'd think a young memeber would be treated nicely ..
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| Author: | CharlesFinley [ Tue Jun 09, 2015 10:21 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: dealing with psycho |
LOL - the first 4 replies were nice... Sometimes guys don't get it, though. If the 5th reply (and btw I think 5 replies on any topic is "nice") were nice, you wouldn't have gotten the point. If you're here to get one specific girl you'd be better off on a relationship or love forum... The guys here do not "do" one girl until they're in a relationship, generally. That's not how this works. |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Tue Jun 09, 2015 10:26 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: dealing with psycho |
Noob - Stop being the biggest chode on the planet you bell end. |
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| Author: | Basic fucking idiot [ Wed Jun 10, 2015 9:16 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: dealing with psycho |
Does anyone know a good relationship forum by any chance ?
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